Though I don’t necessarily mean it literally but it does create barrier between our loved ones, friends, or to people whom we spend time with. And this intangible barrier creates real serious problems in life.

We make a lot of assumptions towards a person after talking, witnessing their way of dealing us, or comprehending their reaction to something that we do. This puts us in a situation of feeling discomfort. To those who are highly sensitive, this makes them feel entirely bad.

Some of them feel depressed as they feel themselves as less of a person, some decide to stay away from the people whom they construed as terrible, some can never contain their anger and confront the ‘pre-conceived’ terrible people.

The problem begins to grow and if it is not being addressed early, it will continue to grow and will surely become hatred.

So many families, friends, lovers or any other kinds of relationships fall into pieces when they shouldn’t suppose to be just because of one thing - miscommunication.

Aren’t we all educated enough on the art of communication? Are we all ignorant to the value of giving time, to talk to something that we think needs a serious one-on-one conversation? Perhaps not, maybe not at all. Or probably, we are just simply closed-minded and conclude things at once after feeling sulk or hurting our ego. Or are we letting anger overpower us?

It is completely disheartening to see beautiful relationships turn sour and eventually get broken or ended just because of the lack of openness in communication. We could have saved more wonderful relationships if only we had talked in the first place.

The art of communicating our feelings to someone is always the key to understanding. Nothing makes a relationship great than communication. When we start communicating to the other person, most especially to our loved one on how we feel, then that opens an opportunity for understanding things they may not know or they may be insensitive about.

Life is then much easier. Nothing else matters but communication. Let’s talk!

This is a continuation of my PAUSE FOR THOUGHT BLOG: WEEK 25

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~Month of JUNE

Week 24 click here BEST OF LUCK TO THOSE WHO KEEP GOING! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 23 click here CHANGE, FRIENDSHIP, AND NO ONE STAYS THE SAME | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 22 click here MONEY AND LIVING TO UPLIFT OTHERS | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

~Month of MAY

Week 21 click here …AND DREAMS ARE REAL, BE BOLD! |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 20 click here NEVER LOSE HOPE IN LOVE |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 19 click here DEVELOP YOUR POTENTIAL FULLY, NEVER SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRITY |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 18 click here REJECTION IN LOVE: HOW SOME MEN SEE IT| PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

~Month of APRIL

Week 17 click here KINDNESS AS A UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 16 click here MAYBE IT'S NOT HOW YOU DO WELL IN SCHOOL BUT HOW YOU DO WELL IN LIFE, GENERALLY | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 15 click here STOP COMPLAINING, CHANGE YOUR SITUATION INSTEAD |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 14 click here I MADE IT! | SUCCESS OF MY 13-WEEK SELF-IMPROVEMENT CHALLENGE

~Month of MARCH

Week 13 click here ALL BEAUTIFUL THINGS ARE MEANT TO END
Week 12 click here NO THOUGHT OF 'I WISH I COULD HAVE DONE BETTER
Week 11 click here BEING A RESPONSIBLE ADULT AND AGING GRACEFULLY
Week 10 click here IN LOVE? LADIES, DON'T BE BLINDED, SPOT THE ABUSIVE TREATMENT FROM YOUR PARTNER | CELEBRATING INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY
Week 9 click here JEALOUS? WHY NOT CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE'S SUCCESS?

~Month of FEBRUARY

Week 8 click here THEY'RE RACIST SO SHE SLAPPED THEM WITH MERCEDES BENZ
Week 7 click here DO NOT TAKE ALL THINGS PERSONALLY
Week 6 click here LIMITING BELIEFS ON THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE
Week 5 click here LISTEN, JUST LISTEN... THAT's ALL WE NEED

~Month of JANUARY

Week 4 click here SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY, NOW!
Week 3 click here GRANNY, THE CRANBERRIES, AND DEATH
Week 2 click here DON'T LOOK BACK IN ANGER
Week 1 click here OF ADVERSITIES & FAITH
To check the background of this challenge click here PAUSE FOR THOUGHT