Daily Dose of Sultnpapper 11/20/17> the story of a selfish old man…@sultnpapper

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Some amazing transformations have been taking place in the skull of this old man who pretends to be a writer as he chronicles his thoughts and experiences under the title of “Daily Dose of Sultnpapper” on the steem block chain.

He came to this platform named steemit.com for what he himself has previously admitted were selfish reasons. I trust what he has previously said because I am “he”, so on my recommendation you can trust him too.

The selfish reasons have been documented on the chain a few times previously, but the chances are unless you are @syd30 , @bifilarcoil, @rizzrose or @thekittygirl you have never seen those reasons. There may be a few others and if I failed to mention you, I apologize in advance if your feelings may be hurt for missing you. I don’t have the luxury at the moment of looking at my list of followers since Fair Weather Internet is on the blink as write today’s dose. Forty eight is still the number.

The Cliff notes version of the story goes like this; he married later in life, his wife is much younger, they are raising four children, children never got to know three of the four grand parents because they had passed away before the children were born. Which led him to think if his children were to do like him, marry later in life, he might not be around when his grand children are growing up.

He wanted a way to leave a record of who he was and how he thought about things, but he knew that a diary wasn’t the way to go. Paper and ink are subject to all sorts of issues, he had seen what flood water and fire can do to those type items. He had read about block chain being a permanent record, and when he discovered Steemit.com he knew he found the right tool for the task he was looking to accomplish.

He wasn’t going to rely on his kid’s to tell his story to his future grand children because they might be bias in one way or another, which has been known to happen. So, on Sept 15, 2017 he started chronicling his thoughts on the block chain. He didn’t come for the potential money, he didn’t care if he had anyone following or reading what he wrote. The readers that he is writing for haven’t even been born yet let alone being able to read.

The thing about this old man is he isn’t as selfish as he would lead you to believe, he might even have a little streak of kindness and compassion. So in spite of himself he decided to start greeting new comers to the steemit.com community, explaining to them the little knowledge he had about how things work on the site.

He’s always been a people person and practical joker so depending on what a person wrote in their introduceyourself post determined the greeting you got from him. Some people ignored him and some people engaged him, it really didn’t matter to him. Some people use salt and pepper to season their food some don’t, no big deal, to each their own tastes.

Then one day a young man showed up, who goes by @ethandsmith, and read his daily dose column. Then a while later he was back again reading another, before long Mr. Smith extended an invitation to him to join a group of writers known as the #unmentionables . The old man knew he didn’t belong, he knew he wasn’t a writer, but, in what he might describe as a moment of weakness, he filled out the application to join. After realizing what he had done, he looked for every reason he could to back out of joining. The best he could come up with was that he didn’t want to embarrass the group, he didn’t mind embarrassing himself, and he does that all the time. So he explained the situation to Mr. Smith, and Mr. Smith, who has great command of his fingers and faculties typed out a message that said, “The decision is up to you, I think you would fit in with the group.”

Having given the group fair warning he embarked on entering the ranks of the membership. When he joined steemit.com he never envisioned joining a group, let alone a group of writers, never had such a thought even crossed his mind. He went on to join another group that was centered on something that he was familiar with, the game of poker. Joining that group was a “no brainer” as he has played online poker in several different venues and groups.
The #unmentionable folks have been a pleasure for him to meet and enjoy, the information that the group produces in the form of the members blogs is truly mind numbing for him. He has learned a great deal just in the short time he’s been there. He never dreamed of putting pictures in his daily dose blog, but now you will find them in there. Most of the blame for this can be attributed to @arbitrarykitten and her article on how to move pictures around your post instead of just being in the center of the page. This new found knowledge also has led to him taking more pictures and creating his own stock pile of photos. He came here to post his stuff not others, and that goes for his pictures as well. What would his future grand kids think of him if he used pictures that belonged to someone else? “Was the old man too lazy to snap a photo or two? “, he didn’t want those questions being asked in the future.

He was also pretty closed minded when it came to re-steeming other peoples work. He figured it was an attempt by the “re-steeming party” as way to get some easy money. He finally came to the realization that some people aren’t thinking like him and use the resteem as a tool to help others get more exposure. So he has even resteemed a couple posts to help the author possibly gain some ground. He doesn’t do it often but even one or two is better than zero.

People come and go, only one of the four I mentioned early in this dose is still active on steemit.com, he sometimes wonders what happened to other three. Could a simple resteem have helped them enough to keep them active? He’ll never know, he will just have to continue to wonder.

Chat rooms have never been his thing either, but there is a thing on the block chain called “discord” and it makes it easy to communicate information back and forth with people, but his understanding is it a closed community and it takes being invited to get to a chat room or “channel” as it is known in block chain speak. He has been known to make a comment or two in the channel, but mainly asks questions in order to grow his knowledge on all this new stuff he’s getting involved with.

I don’t believe you will ever find him doing a vlog, since he has a face that is made more for radio then video, but you never with this old man; he just may surprise us all one day with something over on DTube. His transformations have been many, his accomplishments have been few, but his selfishness he came with is fast disappearing. He will continue to write with his future grand kids in mind but if he doesn’t have any, then all this would end up being a waste of his time.

So, with that in mind he will try to balance what he produces for the enjoyment of the” here and now” folks and the “future sultnpapper offspring “and see how that works for him. If it doesn’t work then he will probably end up reverting back to the grumpy old selfish man he came here as in the beginning.

For all of our sakes I hope that doesn’t happen, I kind of like the way he has transformed, how about you?
Until next time,
@sultnpapper
#unmentionables
Photo credits: (if there were any) would be property of @sultnpapper

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Each post that I read 'till now, made me feel that you are a straightforward, stubborn but open-minded, honest person. This post tops them all!
Makes me wish I was one of your grandkids, I never really had a grandpa, from my mother side died 5 yrs. before I was born, from my father side, died when I was 6..soo you might understand what I mean.
I do really hope your grandkids get the chance to know the real you, and not have to rely on reading posts...
I'm stiil glad I get to know you from your posts.
Steem on..

Thanks Danny. I never knew my grandparents either because they had passed away before I was born. I just had to rely on "the stories" I was told. Now with technology I get to tell the stories, and it won't get lost in the translation or recollection of my kids. I think you have a pretty good read on who I am and how I conduct myself.
I appreciate your continued support on here, thank you.

First and foremost I feel the need to applaud your accomplishments..this post is one of your best doses of sultnpapper hehe! Second..even if life doesn’t give you the opportunity to have grandchildren this was NOT a waste of time..you have grown and learned and for all that matters you have become a better person through knowledge and communication..so if you are lucky enough to have grandchildren and blessed enough to get to know them this experience will help even more!!As for us your fellow steemians..or pervious steemians..let me just say this..your posts inspire us to read and write more .. so that has to count on some level to you and I honestly don’t see how this would ever not work out in a good and positive way for you! I wish you never become that grumpy old man you were talking about before because we honestly look forward to your daily dose of sultnpapper and I’m sure your children do also ..and your grandchildren..they will love it!

Thank you for the kind reply Lidac. If I don't end up with grand children, it will have been a waste of time for what the intended purpose was. But most definitely not a waste of my time for myself. I have grown here, learned new things and met the most amazing people, like YOU! Your reply's are always a highlight for my day. I'll continue to post if you'll continue to comment, do we have an agreement?

My reply was mostly based on some simple facts..please indulge in my explanation..when I was first introduced to steemit I had a poor opinion of the concistency of it..most of the blogs referenced bitcoin or crypto currency stuff that to this day leaves a blank space in my mind (I blame myself for that!) ..nevertheless when @abbak7 insisted I should give it another chance it was almost to late since I started my own intruduction ( btw was very poorly stated since I did not truly belive in this launch site 🚀) and ended up unable to comment on my own posts..bottom line is this.. people like you make the communication process in a less communicative world seem simple and natural..I have come to realise that not alot of people in this cypto Blockchain world are ready to share ( I expected a lot more!!! Silly me!!?) their experiences bad good their expectations or resentments..not even I share as much as I wish to do...but I have gone away from my ideea and point..I am flattered by your steem compliments but none the less I have to think and ask.. mostly..because I am alive..I think (if you don’t mind my saying )that you should pay attention more to what IS around you THE PRESENT than the future..say you will never have grandchildren, but maybe..just maybe!..your children.. will feel pride and enlightenment in whatever they will discover after you will no longer be..think of that as a resolution for the next year and go from there..as I said my remarks are just simple opinions I do not have children and nor will I in the near future.. let alone grandchildren..haha!As for the fact that you said my reply’s are always a highlight of your day..no offense..I think that is overstated..why?because I don’t seem like a particularly witty person with a sass that its needed to stand out..I reply mostly on what I belive and never try to offend or alter someone’s core belives..so the question is why are my reply’s a highlight?and yes!..I will comment on good post..yours or whoevers as long as I can understand and form an opinion of it..if I don’t it means it did not reach me in a way that I can form an opinion..so instead of having an agreement let’s just say this As long as there is understanding and logical questioning we will communicate our believes like all human beings should! (I know this is an overstatement BUT it is also an agreement on communication haha!)So @sultnpapper thank you for your response but you should truly reconsider your intended purpose as it has become more than that..I belive that you have found something you never dreamed of finding which is Yourself! And all future sultnpapper offsprings and steemsprings will be greatful for that!!Keep in touch!

Lidac,
You write me a beautiful, and thoughtful response and then question why I say your responses are a highlight of my day? The proof is in the words and thoughts you reply to me with. I enjoy your perspective, and you are right on several points you mentioned above. You are a deep thinker, and your thoughts are a highlight to me.
I can't change my intended purpose of why I am here, but I surely am expanding on it to include the present and I appreciate you pointing that out to me. My kids are a very important part of who I am, we share a great amount of love and respect for each other. You may have hit on something with finding myself, and that is that I have never been good at expressing in writing or words my thoughts. The thing that always held me back was the fear of how people would perceive me, I have reach the age in life that I really don't care now. I am who I am, and now that feeling has opened me up to the world.
Please do keep the communication between us going through your comments, replies and your work in poetry. You and I have a lot in common, I look forward to seeing how things work out for both of us on here.
Until next time,
@sultnpapper

It's truly great to hear that you've enjoyed your time in our group. I'm glad that I stumbled upon your musings one day. I actually don't even remember how I found your blog. Maybe it was on a day when I headed over to the new section of Steemit, and I got a chuckle out of your username.

Regardless, I'm glad I extended the invitation to you to join our group. We're happy to have you, and I know that many of our members have been engaging your posts.

It's great that you want to preserve your legacy on this platform. I have not ever thought about it that way, so I appreciate the perspective. I'll consider that when typing out my future posts. It's been fun to follow your Steemit journey, and I sincerely wish you the best moving forward. I've enjoyed your posts with pictures!

As always, if there's anything I can help you with, you know where to find me.

Yes, I know where to find you, Thank you very much for all have done for me, and the group.
When I ask for the salt and pepper , it sounds like I have it in my name, with a Texas draw .
I glad that I was able to inspire thought on your part with why I actually came here to begin with.

@sultnpapper you certainly do have a streak of compassion and kindness which you have proved several times to me. And as for your future grandkids, you will do them proud whether you're that selfish steemian or that grumpy old man...

Thank you, you inspired the dose for tomorrow, so be sure to catch it.

It is amazing that I am the only one of the four that is still around. I kinda feel sorry for thee others, now missing out on your delightful, down-to-earth musings!

You had posted pics before, like in that wonderful story about teaching your daughters to restore furniture, but the shots of Giddings were lovely and added a big boost to the charm of your post! Bravo for doing that! It's always great to see folks experimenting outside the proverbial box!

And I totally agree with @racykacy that you exude an admirable streak of compassion and kindness. It's truly evident when you welcome new members and share some insight and guidance with them! I know it is very much appreciated, too! 😊

Yes, Tiffany you are the sole survivor from that crop of newbies that I engaged with at that time. They may show back up but they have been missing for well over six weeks now.
Thank you for the kind words.
Yes, I did do a prior post with pictures, as you pointed out, but I didn't like the look and feel of it. The new tricks I learned make it a lot more cleaner so I will use photos where appropriate now.
Thanks again.

You fit in 100%, like scotch on rocks. I miss my grandparents, they have been gone for some time. I look back on those days when they were around and it was the wisdom that they imparted to me knowingly and unknowingly. Sometimes, you don't know when you have made an impact especially within your own family.. but I do know that you sir, are a very wise man. Someone said they wish you were their grandfather. Well, you remind me of my father when he was at his best. because when he was at his worst it was baddd, but when he was at his best he was the best.
I don't know if that makes much sense, but it did while writing it.
Keep up the posting sir, so I can keep up the reading. :)

Thank you Steve. I think I understand what you mean about your father, I don't know if I could explain it any better than you have. My father was a rail road engineer, he was gone a lot for work, but when he was home we would spend hours and hours talking, well him talking and me listening. He predicted several of the situations that have taken place in the last 30 years before he died in 1980. He taught me how to think, which is a learned skill, and it is not taught in schools any longer, at least not in K -12 in public schools.
I am forever grateful to him and my mother for teaching me that skill.
Thanks for accepting me into the group.

Lol! Love this! I really enjoy reading your daily ramblings - it gives me a taste of home and reminds me of my Grandad, if he had ever taken up blogging. Lol! So cool that you're making this for your future grandchildren. I'm sure you'll live to be 112 though, so don't worry as you'll get to tell them in person if that's the case. And we love having you on The Unmentionables! :)

Thanks Mama,
I feel like I am welcome in the group and that means a lot to me, because the truth still remains that I am not a writer, at best I might be considered to be like the old guy who used to hang out at the barber shop and tell stories to people, even to those who didn't want to listen.
His stories and story telling were so pathetic he became popular, you know what, I may be on to something here.... nah, just dreaming.
Thanks, glad I can sent a taste of Texas to you on a regular basis.

Yes, I think you might be on to something there! :)

Wow you conveyed the message properly @sultnpapper

Thank you @tfame3865 , very seldom do I do things properly. I appreciate you reading, noticing and taking the time to let me know I made the message come across in a way the can be understood. I've been known to really screw the pooch on some attempts with what I post.

got busy and missed this post. i hadnt realized your motivation was for your unborn grand kids. it is an admirable reason. it has always been obvious your were not here for money....cheers..i love my daily dose and i for one for sure think you should be in #unmentionables writers group...as much as you say your not a writer....you just keep writing...hehe

Hey BC,
I am honored that you went back and found this one, so now you know my story of why I came here. At best I am a story teller over a cup of coffee or a glass of tea at the kitchen table. But since that isn't possible for the primary target audience of mine, I had to take to writing it down. In my eyes that doesn't make me a writer, maybe over time, that might change, but for now , story teller works.
Thanks for always engaging with me. I truly enjoy that aspect of this , that is for sure.

you got it sultnpapper. in the beginning... after a week or so not knowing what to make of steemit. it became one of my intentions to be and find real folks in this community. i am not here to blow smoke up the BC... if i didnt enjoy your writing i wouldnt be chatting. i can go with story teller if that makes you feel better. 😉
p.s. not sure if you saw it...but a few days ago i shouted you and a few others out. i expect nothing of you from the post..but do want you to know it is how i feel..... then @limabeing took that post to the next level..which is pretty sweet.

I didn't see it, but I will go see if I can find it, was that the post where she mentioned the untalented competition thing?

I checked them both out , each were very nice to see. I will go back and check the recommended people and see those , I've got some "story telling" to type out first.
Thanks for the shout,

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