一(四十四):一团和气
中国人很灵活,很讲面子,喜欢大家在一起开开心心,一团和气,皆大欢喜。
但就是因为人和人相处其实是有原则的,有些人爱偷懒或者是想走捷径,往往就不那么讲规则,比如看到排队的人很多,按规矩排队实在是浪费时间,于是就插队;或者是等红绿灯的时候,感觉时间太长,干脆不管不顾,直接闯来闯去。
而大部分国人看到这种现象,也都见怪不怪,不愿意挺身而出一声吼,总觉得这么小的一件事情,何必发火呢?以和为贵,大家面子上都过得去算了,于是乎,规则就成了摆设,潜规则就应运而生了。
尤其在熟人社交里面,那更是没有原则,只看交情。小团体越来越多,大家相互打掩护,不再批评与自我批评,而是表扬与自我表扬,真的碰到很过分的错误,也是睁一只眼闭一只眼,实在没办法了象征性地说几句,隔靴搔痒一番,就盼望着能够快点蒙混过关。
所以,中国社会平日里看上去大家和和睦睦,一团和气,似乎挺好。但实际上,这样的社会没有原则,人们普遍缺乏担当,一味的当老好人,只会降低整个社会的效率,最终自食恶果。
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就因为国人的这个特点,一团和气逐渐变成了贬义词。本来是个好词,指待人和气。现多指只求和睦,不讲原则。
像《水浒传》第八十一回里面讲忠臣太尉宿元景,是这样说的:
此人极是仁慈宽厚,待人接物,一团和气。看看,多好的词,被后人们给玷污了,罪过啊罪过!!!
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跟他的气质比较相符,悲天悯人…
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