Things To Note: For Him XI, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, part 6, part 7, part 8, part 9 and part 10
As a man, don’t be threatened by your wife’s huge payout. Everything she has is yours. Be a man in control and in charge. It is your home together and for a humble and loving wife, you don’t have a problem. This is why I mentioned earlier that, as a man, you need to study her content before feeding it to your soul. I mentioned in the first part about choosing right. Don’t go for beauty, because it fades. Go for the right attitude and you will enjoy the best union.
Don’t feel threatened at all by her pay. She is your blessing after all. This is why understanding is needed between couples. Seek the support of your wife in your entire endeavour and she will naturally seek your support too. Seek her advice and she will trust you and always consult with you as well. Don’t forget, I mentioned earlier that you get from your marriage what you have given to it. What you give is what you receive. What you desire to see in your marriage, plant it now, nurture and nourish it and it will germinate.
You can’t remain on the same economic and social spot. It will affect your marriage definitely. Always strive to go higher. Your wife is your blessing and when she sees efforts and determination from you, you can be sure she will support you to every length. She is ready to fuel your dreams and help you if you are the type that would naturally show support to her in everything too. Ladies are sensitive. They might be emotional but they are not dumb.
As a man, you need to be diligent in your work. Whatever you do, be diligent. This will bring you respect from your family and even that of hers. Always strive for excellence. Seek to be better. Don’t plateau on your past achievement, always seek to be better. Yesterday’s achievement is tomorrow’s mediocrity. Mediocrity is unhealthy for the soul. It reduces the quality of life.
...to be continued...
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Here comes the understanding factor between the partner. Money never comes in way of happy marriage life...be it wife or husbabd .whosoever getting a high pay...never let other feel low and inability to earn more...this ego is cracking the relationship apart
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Absolutely. Money is always a tricky one and this is where the true test comes; humility from the wife and understanding from the husband.
Money brings ego....which is hard to digest..need to have lot of guts and will power to avoid its intereference in personal life
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Absolutely. Very true.
Great...👍
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For a happy life there should be a close relationship and understanding. Ignore little issues. Be positive and keep on moving.