Things To Note: For Him IV, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2 and part 3.
As previously mentioned take your time and choose the right person FOR YOU. There is no prize for hasty decisions in marriage if you don’t want to live to regret it. A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. As much as you are attracted to the looks of women, you ought to pay closer look or more attention to the heart. The highest compliment you can give a lady is “**She is very kind”, and not “She is beautiful.” The quality of the heart matters in a relationship. Go for a good heart rather than a beautiful face.
My friend; @steemflow said something and I quote: ”There is a saying in India…first look for the inside of a girl, then go for the skin. To be successful in a relationship, you need to have a clear heart rather than a fairer skin”. He couldn’t have said it any better. Heart matters. Go for a good heart. You should marry your friend. When I mean friend, I mean someone you can be yourself around, someone you can always play with and be at ease with. So, marry your friend, your true friend. You will know by her commitment to you. It will be selfless.
Friendship is important also in a relationship. It helps easy bonding and it makes it easier for you to relate well when issues arise. It means you can be open with each other without holding back. When you talk about anything and everything, it makes it easier for your relationship and it shuts out third parties or external bodies.
Being friend with her make it easy for you two to communicate better. There is no denying the importance of communication in marriage. It saves a whole lot of trouble and also eases boredom. Let’s face it, challenges would come, issues would arise, but the closeness and bond you have created before now would stand you both in good stead.
Be friend with her. You know how you are around your best friend? Be that with her. Let her be that your best friend. It requires a lot of understanding, and commitment. True friendship has no class barrier, so your friendship to her shouldn’t have either.
…to be continued…
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Wow, bro, Your thinking is so high.
If everyone follows that then no one will disappoint in his/her relationship.
Great detailing and presentation and you are absolutely correct.
I'll wait to see part 5.
Thank you for your kind words, really appreciate this a lot. Part 5 coming up soon and i hope you were able to pick one of two from this, as well as other parts too.
Gracias.
A good person with good heart is important for life rather than beautiful face.. yes absolutely right because it's better to know someone closely and judge their inside so that a successful relation can be made..
Yes, my friend, we need to judge from the inside because most of the time, face value might be a false value.
Thank you for that.
Thanks @olawalium for making me part of the good content. ...👍
Failure is another way forward towards sucxess. Dont get hurt and disheartened with being a failure. Looking for a right man takes time...if you dont find any atleast you can make one with you love and care...just keep holding a person whome you think is close to your heart.
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Thank you as always my friend. I always enjoy your contributions and the angles at which you always come from. Duly appreciated.
Great to read your stuffs...good to get some positivity about life and relation👍
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Thanks for this my friend...it means a lot.
Great thinking, we should prefer kind heart instead of beauty.
For a good relationship, beauty doesn't matter.
Beauty is a bonus but a good heart naturally brings about a beauty. Having a good heart makes a relationship better. Imagine both partners having a good heart? What a match made in heaven that is.