Things To Note: For Him IX, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, part 6, part 7 and part 8
Marriage is considering the needs of the other party; your spouse. Don’t be greedy. There shouldn’t be a room for that. Imagine a couple being sensitive to the need of each other, they wouldn’t have to fight over anything, but when you are not sensitive to the need of your partner, and he or she expects you to have known, based on how close you have been and the number of years you have spent together, and then problem is breeding. Of course, there is a place and time where you tell your partner what you need and desire, but there are times you don’t need to speak before your partner knows, and this is the place of “closeness” and “sensitivity”. You need to be sensitive to the needs of your partner.
Read between the lines, make extra efforts and watch her smile. Most of the times, some ladies don’t really know what they want, they expect you, as their man, to be able to figure it out or give a sense of clarity to it. They love a strong and dependable man, so you need to be that man, for yourself and also for her.
Be sensitive to the needs of your spouse. Being sensitive to her needs will show to her that, you really care about her and you are concerned about everything that goes on with her. It gives her peace and a great sense of belonging, knowing that she is in your heart and there is no threat. Don’t forget I mentioned earlier that, ladies love protecting their territory and once they know they are secured, you could see that ease and excitement beaming from their face. Being sensitive to their needs, spoken or unspoken gives them the assurance that you have them at heart and you are committed to them.
Be a giving husband. This is really important and a step above being sensitive, because when you are sensitive to the things she need and you take that extra step to deliver it, be it material or emotional needs, they you are flying high. Be a giving husband. It doesn’t have to be money or material things. A lot of the time when people mention ‘giving’ in a relationship, the first thing that pops up in our head is ‘money’. Money is not the only thing to give in a relationship, and more so, marriage. The truth is, some ladies don’t even need your money. Not like you shouldn’t give it or buy little things, even though she can afford them, but we should let the efforts show and the intention behind everything we do.
...to be continued...
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Expressing the love is the hardest thing that men always fail...there are many ways to make your partner realise the eternal and pure feeling a men have towards her partner...the faith and togetherness will blossom the more the men express his love and wifes understand it pretty welll
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I enjoyed this so much i wish to give you a hug. Hahahahaha. Thanks for this, my friend.
Haha...just putting my prospective bro..a hug is alway welcome
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Hahahahaha. yaaaaay!.
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It's your duty to make her feel that she is secure.
When she comes to know that she is secure then definitely she will love you more than before.