Things To Note: For Him X, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, part 6, part 7, part 8 and part 9.
A man jokingly asked another friend what to give to his wife. He said and I quote: ”Mike, what do I give to my wife? She practically has everything. I am confused.” The friend replied and said: ”Give her a kiss”. This means every little bit helps. What that friend was trying to talk about was, ”Appreciate her a little”. So, some ladies don’t really need our money, they just need you to give them care, appreciate them, love them, whisper sweet words to them, compliment them, don’t berate them, give them your time, your body, your money, your undivided attention, your smile, your assurance, your heart, and anything within your power to give. As a man, or husband, nothing must be too much to give to your spouse, NOTHING.
Be a loving husband. Let her always count on your love, whether you feel she deserves it or not. You married her for a reason, isn’t it? Good, so you should focus on her strength rather than her obvious weakness (es). You know how ladies love to brag about things? Have you seen some ladies brag about how their husbands pamper them to other ladies, who now make other ladies desire that man? It shows whatever comes from the heart of their husband touch their hearts too. They are sensitive and emotional beings. Be a loving husband they can easily brag about, it makes it easier for them to even trust you when they hear contrary words about you out there.
Let your wife feel safe in your hands and in your love. Emit that love even with the way you look at her, smile at her and admire her. Let her always look forward to your opinions instead.
Have you seen some ladies receive a compliment from other guys out there and after they appreciate those compliments, they let you know their husband told them the same? Some would say they would believe it only when their husbands say it, while others would say confidently, “I know. He tells me every day”. Giving them honest compliments even protects you from having them desire others out there or being swayed with their words. You are increasing their confidence as well as earning their loyalty. Love constrains us, love restrains us, love encourages us, and love requires courage.
...to be continued...
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A women always hungry for love..though men always fail to express his feeling but many simple things ..like a light hug, a pep on forhead.., holding her hand are some simple way to make her realise that he is incomplete withou her and he need her presence to make a smooth and happt journey...
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Thank you so much for that. You nailed it. Those things seem simple or little but they are really important. Every little thing matters in a relationship.
Exactly👍 do not let small things to spoil the beauty of a relation
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Yesssss!. You are always on point. Love it. Thanks
Hahah...seems i put insight and sum up every thing😉
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You always do. Hahahaha.
Yes you are right man.the thing which matters is your attention for her. Always appreciate her work. Stand behind her in every problem that she is facing. Hopefully she will give you respect.