How To Tell The Difference, Between An Excuse, And A Reason

in #dtubedaily6 years ago


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We all know people, who have a hundred instant excuses, ready to go, for any scenario, or suggested course of action.

Of course, in life, there are also genuine reasons why something can't, or shouldn't be done.

So how do do tell the difference?

Well, luckily, that's what today's vlog is about ;)

Peace.


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life will always give us reasons to have excuses, buy we must understand that excuses are tools of the incompetent. another nice one from @bobaphet kudos

Thank you for your support :)
Peace.

Amazing video @bobaphet, and couldn't come at a better timing!
But what do you do if you're getting excuses from someone you have no choice but to engage with? (at work for example)

Thanks for reaching out @rutheh, When you realise, and accept, that it's just an excuse, then they just don't bother you any more, because you know it's pointless trying to help them with reason, and if you do buy into their drama, they will keep using excuses, to get your attention (your real currency, as a sentient co-creator).
Peace.

Hey @bobaphet. I've been gone for a little while so missed the replay, but I still wanted to replay back- I totally agree with you, I was dealing with someone who I depended on and kept giving me excuses, but once I refused to buy into them anymore, things just sorted themselves out so that I'm not dependent on them anymore. So thanks for the useful advice!

A person can the the sum of their actions, or the sum of their excuses.

Well put.
Peace.

Oh I can relate to this so much! There's a person I won't name who, if I suggest doing something productive, will come up with ALL imaginable excuses why it can't be done. It angers me so much, but this person is very dear to me. Sometimes a simple task can snowball into such a humongous heap of problems, I'm losing heart...

They are everywhere, and the best way to care, is to not care.
Peace.

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