Relational Intelligence - Smart XIII.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, part 6, part 7, part 8, part 9, part 10, part 11 and part 12.
I watched a movie today about a young lady that was raped by a rich guy. After some weeks, it was noticed that she got pregnant and the guy took responsibility. The mother of the guy never liked this lady and obviously, the guy isn’t making it any easier, even though he accepted the pregnancy.
Like I shared on @communitycoin’s page; because he made you pregnant is not a license to marry him. If you don’t feel for him or he doesn’t feel for you, just wish each other well and go your separate ways. Life is not to be spent in sadness all through. No one can force you to marry who you shouldn’t or don’t feel for. You will be the one in it and not those who will advise you otherwise. Know what you want and be intentional about it.
I get it, if she is good enough to be slept with, and then she should be good enough to be married. That is true and particularly to punish those guys who couldn’t control their libido but in the hind sight, let’s also consider the ladies that would be in perpetual torture from such guys who won’t love them and would make their lives miserable.
No one deserved to be treated that way and this is why I would always say, if you don’t feel, just flee. It is not by force. You should be attracted to the person; at least. Don’t make them feel they are doing you a favour by loving you or marrying you. You are equally important and you matter. Think about your future and run from things or decisions that would put you in perpetual agony; regardless of the circumstances.
THE END
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Dear @olawalium sir!
Actually ! For marriage, the feelings and feelings of both the men and women should be shared between each other. Love is a divine concept, which can not be imposed or imposed. It is not necessary that if a child is received from someone or if a woman is pregnant in it, then she will be ready to marry married is not only meeting of two bodies but meeting of two souls. In which love, feeling, emotions and devotion Are connected. Without its love or marriage only the objects of material happiness remain. True love can not exist. True love is the gift of God.
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