How to Generate a Tough Generation : (16). Build Goals and Purpose of Life

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(16). Build Goals and Purpose of Life

God created man with a great goal and purpose, which one must do in his life, he must assume the responsibility to carry out his duties as best as he can.

The purpose of human life is twofold :

(1). A large, universal and permanent goal, or called a strategic goal.
(2). Purpose is small, partial and periodic, or called with tactical goals.

A small goal should be oriented toward a large goal, surround it and rotate to get to that direction. In order for a child to be dynamic and capable of performing his role to achieve success in social life, let the relationship between behavior and purpose be established.
It is logical that someone who is not able to reach the goal, without accompanying the struggle and be patient with obstacles, whether related to the potential of the self, the surroundings, the limited ability or other obstacles that can block the ambition and spirit to arrive at that goal.

The task will be more stable, if given with a clear description, about the tasks carried out and the goals to be achieved. Also note the child's personal relationship with parents, relatives, relatives and schools. This includes the way the child plays its role, the priority of the step that will begin and the various norms that help it carry out the task.

Need to note, when the child will carry out the task, we will assume that the motto of his life is "a happy life and achievement in learning"

In order to achieve success in that goal, he or she must take the following steps, such as:

He has to like other people.
Always think positively, avoid negative thoughts and pessimistic.
Focusing on his efforts to manage time and learning strategies.
Carry out some duties and needs at home.
Assisting social tasks in social institutions, communities and cultures.
She has influence and her existence is needed for others.

The roles and tasks displayed can provide harmony and balance, especially if clearly focused and structured, on a priority scale, to be evaluated on a continuous basis, thus ensuring that this task is carried out in a balanced way.
A person will be motivated and have a beating in carrying out his duties, when he thinks of the goals he achieved. Effective goals are not limited to focusing on activities, even more on the outcomes to be achieved, because it is what clarifies where the goal is realized and how to continue the path of success.

A successful caregiver in interacting with a child, must recognize his or her potential and ability, to be able to direct, on a realistic basis that matches his or her talents and potential. High ambition with a great purpose, which is beyond the ability of the child, will only make him depressed and frustrated, because he feels unable to achieve it. There was no sense of confidence in him.

By knowing the child's feelings, habits, expectations, approaching his personality, participating in planning the goals of success, and discussing the successes and difficulties faced in his life, the whole will be able to develop self-awareness of the child and those around him, thereby leading to success life. He feels accepted in an environment that can foster positive potential in himself, and has the ability to develop his own worthwhile potential.

Good education will share your goals and activities, and motivate your child to achieve them. It can lead to success and keep working, to be independent, to take on the responsibilities given and to look to the future based on careful planning and arrangement. Then success will give birth to new success.

When a person away from the goal, then what will happen is goncagan and hesitations. This will make a person shaky and shifted from the planned goals.

In order that the time is not in vain and undermined by emptiness, so that he is unhappy and unworthy of responsibility, we must educate the children with a good and clear purpose for his future.