(1). Start From Yourself

The influence of exemplification in the formative period is more effective than the advice and lecture delivered. Many outstanding men are exemplified in the history of Islam, Especially from our example, the Prophet Muhammad who has educated the generation of leaders, which is incomparable at any time. It is they who have transformed historical ink and as role models in science, da'wah, jihad, war and politics.

A child needs exemplary. And he will cite from parents or teachers, because he does have a tendency to follow and follow. When he likes a person, he follows and walks in accordance with his style and seeks to imitate it.

A caregiver is an example followed by the person living with her, watching her behavior and behavior, and listening to her words. Let him reflect on his behavior, before giving advice and advice, so that what is said in accordance with his actions, so that the call to build the child's personality can be accepted.

Parents can not advise children not to make friends with bad children, while he himself befriends people who resemble the nature of his child's friend. Or order him to live independently, while he continues to use others. Parents will look weak without power and effort in front of him.

Let the beginning of the improvement you make for your son is self-improvement first, because his eyes will be tied with your eyes. Therefore good for him is what you do and evil is what you leave behind.