(7) Generate his identity

This understanding is formed within the child through opinion, and interaction with others around him, both from his family and his teacher. This means the child's respect for him and respect for his personality, whether of positive or negative importance. This depends on the trends that shape his personality and his role in the family and school environment. Understanding identity becomes very important in one way, to develop the child's personality. So whoever sees him or herself is not rude or useful, he will feel weak to carry out the responsibility that is propped up. When the spirit is in his possession, things he will sense responsibility when he is in trouble to achieve something in want.

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Indeed, degrading the identity and not giving it enough attention and appreciation will have a negative effect on the attitudes and behaviors of the child. He likes to be alone and hate others, behave in a deviant manner or break the rules. All this is done in order to get out of suffering or to strengthen oneself, in an improper way. Anyone who sees himself with a low view, then he easily give up and like with others, or resigned to a life full of limitations. A student who is tenacious and self-respecting, has a strong sense of identity. He is what he wants, without having to wait for someone else, or there is a backing from others also orders to solve it.

Once you have recognized your child's sense of identity, you can develop and improve into something even better. Let a caregiver provide an opportunity to prove enough of the potential for the child to praise her and self-esteem. The change from the failure to success with the quick and without introduction, will be dangerous for the child's personal. It is impossible for him to overcome the problem, even it can make the down and back. He feels lack, doubt and surrender to others. A difficult gradual education process will make it difficult for the child to face difficulty and practice the ability to cope. It fosters ability and confidence.

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Parents who are always patient in educating children, will form a strong generation, able to overcome all conditions of life and be independent. All of this is the result of the formation that gets from parents who always provide opportunities, display positive behavior and instill the value ynag can be picked by the child, through the process of education that continues to be noticed by the family. Respect for identity and appreciate values, not only through words and advice, but arise habits and deeds that continue to pay attention to child behavior and practice success. This is achieved through coaching that match with the potential and ability possessed