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As I have explained in the previous article on how to build a Tough generation that, and on this occasion I will explain the next point about it.

(6). Do not over-protect (overprotective)

Over protective is too much attitude in educating children, so it can affect the mental and psychological attitude of children, in this world there are no parents who do not love the child, but the way must be really right.

we as parents have very clearly want the best for our children, give them the freedom to express and socialize with anyone, with the note remains under the guidance of parents.

Here are some negative effects of being too over protective in educating children.

1. Hurry quickly

Often times we encounter in everyday life, especially in the attitude of the children when playing with friends, sometimes the child quickly get angry with something very trivial, for example the toys in grab a friend next to him.

2. Children are not independent in the form of decisions submitted to his parents

Due to overly protective of the parents to their children can lead to children are not independent, because all forms of problems

3. Lack of confident children because parents do not believe it

Children are too often arranged parents can make children not confident. This happens because the child thinks parents do not trust their judgment.

4. Abusing the freedom and trust of parents

When parents realize that children need to be given freedom after years of overprotective education, it will be felt too late. Why is that? Because usually the rebellious attitude of children that arise from the style of educating parents who are over protective will be followed by other attitudes that like to abuse the trust and freedom given by parents.

5. The future of the child is unhappy

In contrast, parents who rein in children have the potential to make children unhappy and dissatisfied with his life. There are several factors that affect their feelings, including high dependence on parents and can not make their own decisions.

6. Maybe one day they will become rebels because they feel can not stand the attitude of their parents

A child may be silent when accepting an authoritarian and overly protective parental attitude. They will obey every command and prohibition that we convey to them. But do not be proud if how to educate such parents makes them obedient without resistance.

7. Children will have difficulty when they have to innovate or do something new

Children who have always been tested and intervened by parents for reasons of protection are usually difficult to explore ideas or ideas that come to mind.

8. Unconsciously fear of parents transmitted to children

When we are too protective of the child, the goal may be to protect the child by reason of fear of negative things that will affect the child's life. But unknowingly our fear will be transmitted to the child.

9. The child is hesitant and difficult to make decisions

Have you ever found a child who always asks his / her parents when you decide something? If occasionally done, it does not matter because it means the child appreciates the existence of his parents as his life advisors.

But what about a child who almost always can not make his choice even for trivial things in his life? Think about perhaps the nature and attitude of doubt because of our share.