(3). Build Confidence in Children

Confidence is closely related to the child's happiness. Happiness is only obtained if one feels safe and comfortable. So when a person's confidence is lost, he will feel shock and feel people always suspect and cornering him. He felt inferior, indecisive, embarrassed and awkward while being a person. He will love and be alone, because he believes he has no ability and potential, so adjust everything to his parents, relatives and close friends. He felt desperate, then ran off the light responsibility of the task was easy and simple. He can not focus in the face of problems and quickly retreat from the work being done.

The life experience that a child has been through for many years gives a lot of influence in his personality. Research and research prove that the experience of losing the right to get love, affection and tenderness, and the neglect of material or physical needs, leads to loss of confidence. Moreover, the oppressed and persecuted attitude of the child, while expressing himself, makes him lose confidence. Children who feel wasted and excluded from the family, will feel less confident. This type of child will be limited by the family in exercising responsibilities and making the right decisions, so the development of the child's personality is hampered and the improvement to the better will be very difficult.

Someone who does not have the confidence will build the fortress to protect themselves. He allowed frightening predictions and dreams to dominate his mind and his behavior. Maybe we already know, that the experience of life experienced by children very imprint in his life. Among the most impressed experiences, when he had to part with both parents, to a condition called maturity of the soul. In order for a child to enjoy this maturity, he must have a basis of independence and self-reliance. Good education will give you confidence. He feels treated equally and equally with his brother, and has the rights and obligations carried out, thus giving him the opportunity to express himself, the Son feels appreciated and valued among family members. Physical, inner and social needs are fulfilled, so he tries harmony and able to adapt to society.

Let the child be trained to assume responsibilities from an early age, in accordance with the ability and potential of self. Jaganlah he shoulder beyond his capacity, so that the task is not in vain and fail. With a sense of confidence in children, it will be able to help reinforce positive behaviors and deliver successful work undertaken. A person who is depressed when facing failure, will be disturbed personality, so gave birth to despair, hialngnya spirit of success and achievement. He can not be independent and unsure of the potential within him.

The child's success in performing positive obligations gives him a sense of being loved by his parents. When he is able to achieve his love, he will do his best to showcase his abilities in the work done. To instill an optimistic sense in the child can give him the confidence, the strength of his soul and develop his social relationships, which is an important element in fostering congregational spirit and helping each other.The award given in the form of speech or symbol of the material, can encourage themselves to continue to act and behave correctly. A good and active person is ready to carry out the responsibilities and will never run away from his duties and questions in life.