Anatomizing/Dissecting (strengths and weaknesses) of each temperaments[course 2] (Choleric Husband) MR - series 15
Past week i wrote onWhat it means to have a Sanguine Husband or Wife. See [here]. The chapter continues. Thank you as you read.
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What it means to have a choleric husband or Wife (The yellow Bile).
"Strengths of a Choleric Husband"
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Kofi Choleric, is the hot, quick, active, practical, strong-willed temperament type.
He is half sufficient and very independent.
He tends to be decisive and opinionated and finds it easy to make decisions for himself and for others, and often needs to be in charge and in control.
He is an extrovert but not an intense one.
[link] He thrives on activity - in fact to him, life is activity.
He does not need to be stimulated by his environment but stimulates his environment with endless ideas, plans, plans, goals and ambitions.
He rarely engages in aimless activity because of his practical keen mind.
He is capable of making sound, instant decisions and planning worthwhile projects.
He never waivers under the pressure of what others think.
He takes a firm stand on issues and often crusades against things like social injustice.
He is not discouraged by problems, rather problems encourage him to find solutions.
He has dogged determination which usually allows him to succeed where others have failed because others become discouraged and quit whereas the choleric doggedly keep pushing ahead.
He is a born leader known as a strong Natural Leader in the business world.
He seeks useful and productive values in life - if he is a Christian, he is usually a very dedicated one.
He is very open and honest person, sometimes to a fault.
Finances:
He is an achiever and successful.
He is a great provider.
He does not want his wife and children to be in need, and does not understand why there should be a problem after he has done all these.
Spirituality:
He is an achiever, a pioneer and a builder.
He is hard-working .
He has a tendency to believe more in his strength than in God.
Commitment :
He is very committed.
He has dogged determination that makes him achieve even if he's not gifted.
"Weaknesses of a Choleric Husband"
His emotional nature is the least developed part of his temperaments.
He does not sympathize easily with others and does not naturally shows or express compassion.
He is often embarrassed or disgusted by the tears of others and is usually insensitive to their needs.
He reflects little appreciation for Music or the fine arts unless his secondary temperament traits are those of melancholic.
His most serious weakness is anger. [link]
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Choleric are extremely hostile people. [link]
They use their wrath as a weapon to get what they want because they come to realise that other people are usually afraid of their strong outbursts.
He may wilfully cause pain to others and enjoy it.
His wife is usually afraid of him and he tends to terrifies his children.
He is a doors slammer, table pounded, and horn - blower. Any person who gets in his way, retards his progress or fail to perform up to the level of his expectations bears the brunt of his wrath. [lk]
Cholerics tend to carry a grudge for a long time.
He often falls prey to ulcers by the time he is 40 years.
Cholerics are sarcastic and can make scathing remarks which can wither the insecure or devastate the less combative.
He usually leaves a path of damaged psyches and figured egos because the other temperament types wilt under his treatment of them.
He is the most unaffectionate of all the temperaments and becomes emotionally spastic at the thought of any public show of affection.
Marital affection to him means a kiss at the wedding and on every 4th anniversary thereafter.
They are so strong willed and so bent on doing what they want to do that they may resort to tricks to have their own way.
Emotions:
He finds it difficult to relate to or understand emotional things.
He has a problem with anger and forgiveness.
He may find himself thinking more in terms of "what I have done" than in terms of the grace of God.
He is likely to be dogmatic in his stance and will carry out his opinion without thinking much about how his partner feels.
He is an emotional extremist, that is, either hot or cold and gets furiously angry or explode.
For further reading, check [here] and [here]
For past series, Click [1.], [2], [3.], [4.], [5.], [6.], [7.], [8.], [9.], [10.], [11.], [12.], [13.], [14.]
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Absolutely spot on. I touched all these traits last two weeks too when i spoke about them. This is detailed and extensive. Well done.
Thank you bruh. So you write about relationship too?
Anytime. Yes i do, bro.