Anatomizing/Dissecting (strengths and weaknesses) of each temperaments[course 1] (Marriage redefined series 14]
Few days ago, I dropped the 13th series of Marriage Redefined, which centred on Temperaments and it's different types - melancholic, choleric, sanguine and Phlegmatic.
In this series, we will consider the attributes of couples having such temperaments.
What it means to have a Sanguine Husband or Wife.
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Emotionally warm -- Sompa Sanguine if he is married to Mansa melancholy is likely to enjoy an emotionally surcharges relationship because they both possess the richest emotion of the four basic temperaments
Friendly -- Sompa is an enthusiastic, feeling-oriented person who can easily be moved to tears by the sad mood of his friends or to joy and excitement by the happiness of others.
Happy.
Outgoing -- Sompa is the fun-loving super-extrovert with personality, charisma and charm to burn. If he attends a Party, he is the life of it.
Talkative.
Enthusiastic.
Stimulating.
Communication and Fellowship.
• He is expressive in Public -- in storytelling, conversations, exaggerations and actions. He is likely to get a lot of public attention. • Rarely say vicious things about others.
)Lacks discipline.
Prone to exaggerate.
Disorganised.
Hot - tempered.
Prone to unfaithfulness [because of his instability].
Weak - willed.
Finances
• He is indiscipline with money and spends money anyhow. • He is unconstrained and usually overspends. • He can be poor even with good opportunities.Emotions.
• He is too emotional [he cries one moment, and the next moment it is over]. • He is angered easily but also forgives very quickly. • He can be moody.Spiritual.
• He is disorganised spiritually. • He can be very carnal and fleshly.Commitment.
• He loses interest easily. • He can be unfaithful and weak-willed, especially if his wife is uninteresting.Home.
• He is untidy -- throws things about. • He is dirty.Relationships.
• He may enter and leave a relationship easily.
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Sena Sanguine is adorable and popular --she was probably a cheerleader in school. She is the easiest personality to spot in crowd -- she talks a great deal, usually laughs loudly, and has many gestures like waving her arms in the air.
She is always in the middle of the action, mixing and mingling with people, and entertaining them with grand stories that may bear little or no resemblance to the truth.
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Other personalities watching her wonder if she ever gets tired.
She is good at networking -- she is relationship-wise and knows virtually everyone.
She's everyone's best friend and sincerely loves them all. However, she has an extra special place for friends who adore and idolise her. She thrives on compliments.
She doesn't get worries when she is not worshipped. When her feelings are hurt, she doesn't hold a grudge.
She's quick to apologise when she realises she's done wrong.
She is spontaneous and excitable and can decide on fun on the spur of the moment.
She's talkative -- she is usually a good speaker or great teacher because she can talk for hours on a topic she has little or more information about.
She's the life of the party -- She likes to throw parties and to attend them. At the party, all action revolves around her. She usually arrives late at the party, because she either loses the direction of the party of forgets about it.
Her primary goal in life is to have fun. when things get too serious, she tries to lighten up her environment.
She always the best from people and from life.
She can motivate others to action and is fabulous at dreaming up wild schemes for someone else to implement. She can convince normally sane people to do things they wouldn't normally do.
She is usually fond of bright colours.
She is very creative dresser and likes new hairstyles and colours. Her creativity may extends to baking, decorating and entertaining. She is good at inventing homes, crafts and projects for kids.
She lives by the principles "live and let live". She doesn't spend her time thinking about what is wrong with people she meets. She rather focuses on what is right about people and about life.
She accepts the fact that everyone has faults and everyone makes mistakes. She has no desire to judge others and this attitude makes her popular.
She has seemingly childlike faith and trust in human beings -- she always believes the best about others.
She rarely spreads vicious rumours although she likes to talk. She easily entrusts her life to God and is therefore seldom plagued by worry and fear as the other temperaments. She lives one day at a time.
~Weaknesses of a Sanguine Wife~ [weakness] 
)1. Too talkative - often wonders why everyone is quiet all the time. Because she doesn't pay adequate attention to details she may say the wrong things and embarrass those close to her. .2. She tends to exaggerate for effect and therefore is seen as not telling the truth.
She tends to avoid confrontation -- since her goal is in life is to have fun, she puts off dealings with problems.
Forgetful -- they do not remember appointments and schedules.
Permissive -- She may allow her children to behave anyhow and may not take danger signs in marriage and life in general seriously.
She often gets excited about a role but is not around when it is being implemented.
She lacks attention to detail -- she makes commitment without thinking about what it will take to follow through. She leaves a trail of broken promises.
She fusses and complains when she has to work a little. She doesn't like to work.
Messy housekeeper -- she never seems to know where anything is because she is disorganised. She has a hard time finding her curlers, make-up bags, keys etc. She rarely has anything clean and tidy. She doesn't enjoy cleaning the house and usually has an untidy bedroom.
Some people can't stand sanguine. They find them too overwhelming.
Seems phone -- other temperaments may misunderstand her motives. She can appear phone even when she has good intentions.
Stay tuned for the next course.
Notes Tim LaHaye, I Love You But Why Are We So Different? (Eugene, Oregon: Harvest House, 1991), 37, 40. Ibid.,25, 27. Ibid., 37, 40. <center>Ref. Dag Heward.</center>If you missed previous series, please check below links [Series 1.] [Series 2.] [Series 3.] [Series 4.] [Series 5.] [Series 6.] [Series 7.] [Series 8.] [Series 9.] [Series 10.] [Series 11.] [Series 12.] [Series 13.]
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Wow.. That's enlightening. Understanding the temperaments of a person goes a long way in making relationships transcend fluidly.
This is very important in a relationship.
Wow, what an educative post. Thanks for writing this. This will go a long way in building better relationships. Understanding one's strengths and weaknesses will create room for improvement and make one a better spouse. While understanding one's spouse strengths/weaknesses will improve communication and how to cope with his or her inadequacies.
Thank yo for being here.