Work hard, so that you have the right to choose

When I was surfing Facebook, I saw a post from my cousin, the picture of walking down the beach make me envy. I hastened like and commented: “The winner of life.”

And my cousin replied: “Don't worry, hard work, you will achieve it too.” I definitely believe what she said.

Because I witnessed how she reached today step by step since she was in high school.

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When she was a teenager, she started working, successively run from state to state. Her job scope also changes from workshop worker to supermarket cashier, and then to financial management division.

With the growth of age and experience, with sustained efforts and sweat, now she is a manager of a four-person team, she also bought a house in the city.

During the new year, she came back hometown with a boyfriend, she said that her boyfriend is born with a silver spoon, his family has certain assets. My uncle was worried because of my cousin low education; his family will look down on her.

My cousin said, "Dad, I am not stupid, if he doesn't treat me well, I will kick him away."

Although she sounds rude, but not everyone has the words of the emboldened. She has been struggling for more than ten years, building her own world with her bare hands, now she is living in her best appearance, so she has the right to choose.

She is 27 this year, she said, she sees a lot and well aware of the hardships of life, and do not want waste her efforts to marriage. Therefore, she must find someone who treasures her and loves her.

More than ten years of efforts, in exchange for today's emboldened. Has the ability, has the right to make choices.

Although her process was hard, she finally has a happy life. But a lot of people, although they endured the hardship, their life is still the same.

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I have several high school friends, they did not continue study and started working. Two to three years later, they found a life partner and are on the road to marriage and having children.

When I went to college, I occasionally go back hometown and had a sense of distance when I saw them holding their children for breakfast. Later, I heard from my neighbors, xxx at home with children, working in the supermarket with less than RM1000($240) salary.

Whenever I heard the name of my childhood playmates, I always feel a little trance. We are all peers, but the trajectory of life is completely different.

A lot of people seem to be very anxious; they hurried into the marriage when they haven’t yet to know themselves. Feel exhausted with the children and mother-in-law issues, when they want to try, they sighed that their youth has died, life becomes ruthless, it seems that they got no room for extra work.

In fact, the hardships of life are the same; some people do not want to work hard until late night, the last thing to do is to bear the wind and sun trivial pain.

If you have at least something to grab on, have the ability to fight the outside world, but also have the power, and there is no compromise ability. But the latter found that you have nothing, casually find a person, find a job, think can eliminate the uneasiness in mind.

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Envy can be a retreat and also has no way to retreat. Some people can choose to go to big cities, or they can choose to stay at home. And some people, can’t leave their hometown, can only stay in place.

Have umbrella but didn’t use it and have no umbrella to use are two completely different moods, two different lives.

Today, most of us are displaced to study abroad, work, dream. Every person who takes their life seriously, should able to feel their small hardship days, but also able to feel their awesome day.

Sometimes when we do more things, is not to change the world, but to stubbornly resist not to be changed by the world.

Do not want to bargain in the market for a few cents; Do not want because of lack of education and watched others throw our resumes into the dustbin; Do not want because of no money and no ability, helplessly give up love.

I used to feel, “I must do this,” but now I often feel, “how can I do this?”

As in that sentence, freedom is not about doing what you want to do but is don’t do what you don't want to do. It's not easy to live your life and do what you want to do and protect the people you want to protect.

Life is like a big net, human intercourse, joys and sorrows, a little indulgence, might be caught up by the net and can’t move. All you can do is keep jumping so that it is possible to break free from the shackles of life, to get the freedom you want.

And many people, even though they keep jumping, they were not able to jump out of their nets, and many people don't even jump, and willing to be living inbound.

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Do or not do, work hard or not, are our choice. Some people are born in the clouds, play and enjoy the normal life. And you, do you think you have that kind of capital?

In other words, if you don’t have such capital to choose what kind of lifestyle, others also have no right to intervene. Just do your things and be responsible for the things you did.

Four years of university life, on the surface seemingly placid life, but actually has a violent storm and roaring waves.

Work, ability, life partner, parents, all are the responsibility. Go back home or chat with friends, basically inseparable from these topics.

Don’t like others to ask about our salary; Don’t like to be asked when are you getting married; Don’t like all the relatives ask you when to buy a house.

We don't like it because we didn't achieve it. Think about it; they don't need answers to these questions, people who need the answers are us.

Anyone who has the responsibility to make life a comfortable place will inevitably have to work hard. Put into life, not poetry and far away, but are the daily necessities.

Say the future is too far away to see the present. How a person is going to be now, will be the description of what kind of future. All things are traceable. Don't complain, don't be impatient, do it step by step.

The saddest thing is to wait until you reach middle-aged, people around you are relying on themselves and just feel powerless. While still have the strength, have the energy, why not go through hardship for a few more years?

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