No negative today, is the most important thing in life

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Two years ago, during an internship program, I rented an apartment with some friends together, outside of the apartment has a restaurant that serves special and delicious breakfast. Everytime needs to queue up because there are too many people. I like to eat there, but I always get up too late, and for a long time I didn’t manage to had my breakfast.

I always say to myself, tomorrow I must get up early, a little earlier, to eat breakfast.
However, tomorrow seems to be too late, day after day, I told myself this for nearly a year, and I still didn’t manage to eat breakfast.

Later, after the internship was over, I moved away. I never had a good breakfast and never able to go back to the day I told myself to get up early. At that time, I suddenly realized: the hardest things in life is not knowing what to do tomorrow, is that we can't go back to yesterday.

After all, yesterday's sun will never dry today's clothes. It must be done today, or else with a blink of an eye, today will become yesterday.

The restaurant can be looked for again, but it is not the same taste from the past, the lost people can meet again, but it is not this life's appearance.

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Sally is an editor working in a media company, strictly speaking, there is no weekend or vacation, she is particularly hard-working, even if it is new year eve, she has been working overtime in the company.

It is also on the New Year Eve; her mom had a myocardial infarction, it was more than 12 hours when she found out. She did not have time to do a stent, can only rely on medicine to maintain. Not long later, her mom was passed away.

Sally has been very remorse, if she can go home early to accompany her mom, and found out her illness earlier; this may not happen.

But there is no ‘if’ in this world. Those who have been hastily hung up before the end of the conversation will never be called again. The endless thoughts, no one will nag her.

Life has too many helpless things, mostly because they do not know how to cherish the present. It is useless to say that you know it until you lose it.

A few days ago I was chatting with a junior, he graduated this year and just started working, still less than six months, he begins to sigh toward life.

He studied business management, and we know each other because we were in the same club. He is handsome, smart, and have ideas, but just lazy.

But after starting to work, he only found that he cannot act like how he acted during university. He wants to become a salesman that handle foreign-related products. His professional knowledge is not perfect; his poor oral failed his interview with the foreign company.

Later, he found a position as a business assistant, every day busy until late night, even the most basic translation need the help of colleagues or software. And this just reminded me: "Learn an extra skill, less ask help from others."

He said to me, he regrets, during university, he always thinks that he has more time, wasted a lot and still feel bored. But after graduation only to find that those boring time, will never have a second time in life.

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You see, in fact, many times in life, we are born in the blessing without self-knowledge, until we completely lost. If we had understood at the beginning, that there is no rehearsal for life and that every day would not be the same, would the result be different?

People sometimes really conflict, knowing that the loss will not come back, but still choose to procrastinate, until really lost it, and start regretting. But after all this, it doesn’t matter anymore.

Just like I can’t go back to the restaurant, no matter how much I live in the future, I can not find the original kind of full of expectations feeling.

I once saw an article on the Internet: A lot of things will not follow your life, not youth, not beauty, not even love, will able to follow you until the end of your life. However, the ability you acquired those years will follow your life, to save you from every misery.

My biggest feeling about this post is that no matter what we experienced yesterday, until the next sunrise, under that sunlight, is a new me.

Time has been moving, we have been changing, people cannot step into the same river two times, and we can never stay put. Then, the only way to go farther and wider is to become better than yesterday.

Let the past be the past, let the future come to a bang. If you can, please cherish everything around you, whether it is relatives, friends, work or life.

Your heart should face the future, but also must be persistent in the present, because no negative today, is the most important thing in life.

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