Constantly progressing sometimes can be a bad thing too

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I still remember when I was in college, I had a period I feel very tired, feel dizzy when study and wished to burn all the books.

But, on the other hand, and reluctant to do, after all, those things still need to spend money to buy. At that period, is just play and fooling around, but also just want to play, has become the opposite example of progressive.

But one day suddenly wake up in the morning, I found that this life is too extreme, and my mind has an idea: since the continuous progress is a good thing, then keep playing is a bad thing?

And since then, I suddenly not tired of studying, but understand the relationship between study and play.

So, until now, I say to a lot of people study is good, continuous progress is always good, self-motivated people will not be bad.

There is a good side being motivated, but sometimes it can be a bad thing.

1. Renewed awareness of continuous progress

The more reading and the more practice I did, I gradually found that the continuous progress is not that beautiful like I think, it also has a lot of disadvantages.

In other words, continuous progress is another form of extreme learning style, but because we often consume our energy, we do not continue to adhere, and not aware of the possible negative effects of continuous progress.

And this negative effect is, mistakenly think that continuous progress is always right, other interference or interruption of things are wrong.

For example, constantly motivated to study every day.
I know that a lot of people are very motivated every day, especially the end of the year, but also open up the crazy mode of evil, studying and writing, and constantly buying a variety of courses, continuous learning.

A lot of people are like this every day, continuous progress, in the end, they do not know what the purpose of this kind of progress.

There are a lot of people, use continuous progress as their new excuse to refuse to do what they do not want to do.

Continuous progress, is really good, but, such a good really have no problem? Or do we just deliberately seeing the good side and ignore the possible bad side?

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2. Good and Bad

Most of the time, a real honest person will know that such a so-called daily progress, most of them are not really progressing.

Because from the study itself, cannot always progress, but may be accompanied by retreat, and then forward, and then back, error and the correct process of alternation.

However, most people mistakenly think that as long as they seem to be constantly motivated, is good; others have nothing to say.

In my opinion, such a good has been excessive.

For example, we often hear adults like to say to children-Why are you still playing, go study now!”

When children go for study, the adults will stop complaining and think that this is good.

But is there a big question is whether the child is studying or not?

But many people do not want to believe this simple fact, even after they become parents, they continue this misconception, and educate to the next generation.

When you are a child, you found easy to use, slowly began to deceive adults, in the end, deceive yourself, and the misunderstanding of learning become deeper.

So, began more investment into the continuous progress, at the expense of all of the time.

This result is an extreme success, but not everyone is willing to achieve such extreme success, doesn’t it?

So what is the meaning of our constant striving?

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3. Extreme and balanced

I think, constantly progressing, it has good and bad, the key is how we treat it.

Attitude is very important.

Now, we often say that methods are important, but often ignore the importance of attitude, that as long as it is a good method, we can achieve good results.

In fact, a lot of successful things, to achieve the result of the matter, the method is not the most important, and want to do or don’t want to do is the most important.

This is the choice between extreme and balanced.

Continuous progressing can be balanced continuous progress, can also be an extreme continuous progress, different attitude, the final result will be different.

For example, overtime when nothing to do, and say it is a continuous progress; don't want to get complaints from friends and family, pretending to read a book and so on.

There are a lot of examples are using continuous progressing as the shield, because many people think that as long as a person is continuous progressing, then that must be not bad.

Second, after correcting misconceptions, they need to be tested again through action.

Most people do know the misconceptions, and even corrected it, but after corrected they didn’t take action. After a period, they forget and then continue to repeat the same mistake.

For example, only input and no output. Many people like reading, also read a lot of books, but never further thought after reading, improve current existing skills? Or learn a new way to replace the old method? Or do something else?

Blindly input and no output, it seems to be constantly motivated, but also very serious, but the final result is not good, this is another kind of continuous progressive abuse.

Finally, it is important to understand that extreme input requires extraordinary willpower.

Because only understand whether constantly progressing is good or bad, sometimes, will be seriously treated constantly progressing, and not to think the extreme type of continuous progressing results, and use balance continuous progress.

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4. Keep practicing

Continuous progressing has been a very deep misunderstanding of the concept, and very few people to use the extreme type of input.

Because in most people's view, continuous progressing is to reap the wonderful results. A lot of TV dramas also have such publicity, a poor guy go through continuous progress and finally married to a goddess.

But in real life?
Even if the lady does not love money, they will not choose a man with low value, and that is the reality.

Therefore, continuous progress also has its limit, but only by understanding the essence of the development, able to see through the good and bad of continuous progressing, regain awareness of continuous progress, then there is possible to really continuous progressing.

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