"Be the kind of WOMAN that when your feet hit the floor each morning, the devil say, "OH CRAP, SHE'S UP!"

Do you want to become empowered and unstoppable Woman? Here are the 6 Most Important Things For A Woman To Learn In Life

1. SELF-LOVE

Every woman needs to learn how to love and accept herself. She needs to know herself, what she likes, what she don't like. What are her strenghts and what are her weaknesses. She needs to know her talent, skills, and traits.

She need not compare herself to others for we are unique in our own ways. She need not allow false advertisements, propagandas, and other people to define her own beauty and intelligence.

She must not feed her minds with negative thoughts, and never allow toxic people and television brainwashed her beautiful mind.

She needs to recognize and forgive herself for her flaws and weaknesses. And she needs to know that she has the power to improve all her flaws and weaknesses. Also, she must learn to trust her choices and beliefs.

Learning to love herself is not selfish at all. It's necessary. How can she love and accept other people when she can't even love and accept herself? And how can she expect to be loved and be accepted by others?

Before she seek for other people's love and acceptance, she needs to learn how to love and accept herself. She needs to start seeing her own beauty, her intelligence, and her best self. Only then she can spread more love and wonderful creations to the world.

2. SELF-RESPECT

After knowing, loving, accepting, and forgiving herself she needs to learn her worth. Learning her worth can save her from heart aches and abuse.

She needs to build her confidence up. She need not keep up with trends and find a lover for the sake of being "in" with her friends. She need not be jealous of anything for she's amazing and wonderful in her own ways. She also has her own unique family, friends, and things.

She needs to believe in her own choices, her dreams, and her own philosophy. She needs to learn how to handle criticism, and never allow anyone to dictate her life, controls her mind and emotions.

She needs to be honest with herself. What she likes and what she don't like. She needs to admit when she is wrong. She needs to know how to deal with her powerful emotions. She needs to learn to confront other people calmly, to state what she needs and what she wants.

She must not let anyone see her do with something that she'll regret nor demean herself in front of others. She must not rely too much on others to feel good and happy.

She needs to take care of her body because that's the only place she needs to live. She needs to read, watch, and write anything that is in relation with her self-growth every single day.

Lastly, she needs to learn how to stop a person that disrespects her. She, you, and me needs to respect others as we wants others to respect us.

3. CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY

"Life is kind of like a party. You'll invite a lot of people, some leave early, some stay all night, some laugh with you, some laugh at you, and some show up late.

But in the end, after the fun, there are a few who stay to help you clean up the mess. And most of the time they aren't even the ones who made the mess. These people are your real friends. They are the ones who matter most."

She needs to choose friends with similar values and philosophy. Friends with common goals, friends with same interest and who are thirsty of knowledge, friends that will celebrate her success, friends who offer emotional support and guidance, and friends that brings out the best in her.

Based on experienced, she can know what kind of friend a person is base on how that person talk about her other friends and other people behind their back. How that person treats them, is how that person treats and talks about her when she's not around. So choose wisely.

4. MAKE AND HANDLE OWN MONEY

It is hard to become a woman so she must learn how to make and handle her own money. She becomes powerless and dependent to a man for she don't know how to make and handle her own money. If she does know, her life would be easier. She can travel where she wants and when she wants. She can buy the book, the food, and the clothes she needs and wants without asking any money from someone.

Making and having money is an advantage for a woman, especially married woman for she can feel confidence knowing that she is also helping her partner financially. She can have that sense of pride and value. And if threatened with divorce, she need not kneel down and plead for her husband to stay for she can raise their kids without relying on her husband's support.

Looking back, you'll understand that a woman before is powerless and dependent to a man for they don't make their own money. A she before allows a man to abuse and mistreat her for she is not capable of feeding herself, let alone their children.

But remember, a she is not allowed to abuse or mistreat him if she earns more and he earns little to no income at all. (Disclaimer: I'm not trying to spark any discussion regarding feminism or gender equality. I just want to empower a woman to become the best version of herself to make her life easier.) Remember point # 2 in self-respect. Respect others as you want others to respect you. No matter what your gender preference is you are not allowed to abuse or mistreat anyone just because you have power or money or both.

5. STUDY AND UNDERSTAND MEN

It is a must for every woman to learn and understand men. And I do encourage men to do the same. Before continuing, I'd like you to watch this youtube video uploaded by wrksnfx. Men's Brain Vs. Women's Brain

Did you watch it? Now my point is, men's brain and women's brain is different. Women's brain is interconnected that's why most women tends to care about everything. While men's brain has a specific box for each thing so they don't care.

Just imagine how easier our lives can be if all of us studies and understands each other. This information is not only applicable for couples. We can use this information to our own advantage. We can apply this knowledge in our work, business, and even with kids without confusion or negative assumptions.

6. WORDS CAN BEND AND MEND PEOPLE

Sometimes, she can be tackless and get carried away with her emotions so she must constantly remind herself that words are powerful. Words can bend and mend people, even relationships.

As we understand the power of words, she or even he, must learn how to be mindful of her word choice.

Words can inspire. And words can destroy. Choose yours well.
-Robin Sharma

I hope my words did inspire you. Originally, I make this article to empower women to become the best version of themselves but as I continue writing, I noticed that it can empower both men, women, and other genders as well. How do you find this blog post? Is this post worth sharing to other people?

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