"DO NOT SNIFF WHAT YOU WON'T EAT"- An Untalented-Mama's advice to a Grown-up Male Child!
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"Never smell what you are not interested in eating"
This one of my late Momma's quote each time she is giving her son's relationship advice. As a widow my mom had assumed dual role of fatherhood coupled with motherhood, she had to because she had no girl child, we are all boys and so most issues of boys adolescents stage she knew of which i am never shy to talk to her even though my elder brothers are disgusted in this but sure could not stop it from been aired to my dear Momma!
Honestly, i have never been a "Taster", that is having a taste of everything in skirts around me. Not that the urge is never there but i have a subconscious fear of the bad lucks that comes with it because of my strong believe in several African Traditional Superstitious believes that had been echoed in several places i have been to. This gave me a high sense of cautiousness that not all ladies are touchable. Today i have summarized some of the superstitions/myth attached to ladies for any guy who care to know the dangers of sleeping around.
THE AFRICAN TABOO SURROUNDING SLEEPING WITH SEVERAL LADIES
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"BAD LUCK"
Popularly believed to be 85% true, sleeping around with multiple ladies brings bad luck. Many guys in the name of trying out their sexual prowess had ended up sleeping about over 50 or more ladies and the African Myth says; each lady a man sleeps with decreases the level of Goodwill and chances of success of such man/guy.
Sounds cheeky but practically many of us had seen it happen, the mechanisms causing this strange phenomenon remains unknown. When a guy could not control his sexual urges and always wants to satisfy it, he would definitely encounter a lady soaked in bad luck one time or many times. It is a believe through this African Superstition that ladies accumulates this ill will from spreading their legs for every man that comes their way and they are also generous by sharing this ill will to other men who comes their way!
"DEMONS"
Dozens of evil are out there and many took the form of women. In Africa, some of such evils are referred to as "Emere or Ogbanje" some are also referred to as "Marine Spirit". As weird as all this sounds, it seems true as this ladies comes in the prettiest forms any man could decline nor resist or perhaps look away from. All some of them wants from a man is their semen and that's it. Such a man, guy, boy might find it hard to conceive, be successful or even live long in life. Many men had been reported entrapped by this demons just from sleeping with a random girl and the stories of their lives had changed.
"THE SPELL OF HAVING SEX WITH A PREGNANT LADY"
It comes as no surprise that some people would do anything to get what they want, so are some ladies who could go any length to fulfill and obligation even if it requires a pregnant woman/girl sleeping with another man. Now this is one of the scariest superstition, a man who sleeps with such a lady knowingly and unknowingly is doomed and will automatically fall under a spell; this could be Been extremely broke or some nasty health issues.
This applies to the man or guy who sleeps with a lady carrying another man's baby, sounds dorky but we all must have read in some columns and blogs of real life accounts and how such men had been struggling in their lives. Myth or Superstition, who in his right mind would do such a thing, or how would a man know when the lady is desperate to get what he wants and hence not declaring she s carrying a baby?
MYTH/SUPERSTITION OR NOT
How this things came into play will remain unknown, and it is not a matter of whether you believe in it or not. But to any self conscious and responsible man, this shouldn't be a problem once the individual men remains satisfied with one partner, spouse, wife, Girlfriend or remain single.
Aside from the mentioned woes, too many ladies drains a man's account and resources, makes a man loose focus and most times once all a man's wealth is gone this ladies ditches such victims and hunt for another.
Be wise, stay away from the ones you can't settle for; never taste from many to avoid falling into this superstitious traps!
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Exactly. Why sniff what you can't eat. I guess it is 'ojukokoro', long throat that is a problem to many men.
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Ojukokoro is the word ma'am, thanks for your input and have a great week.
Just watch and see how this comment section would be sparsely populated with comments since the tasters are on the corner watching this thread like :)
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I try to avoid some conflicts uncalled for mate
Lol. Let's see how it goes.
Hehehehe. I don't believe many tasters exist here on steemit. But that's just my thoughts, let's watch n see.
Hello @oluwoleolaide
Mama still warns me, she did yesterday. I am not a taster though I was almost drawn into it. I thank God I didn't fall. I fear the Marine spirit myths the most. I don't anyone playing with my destiny just for a few minutes of fun.
Many ladies don't even care about resources or focus. So far the man is in for the tasting, they are will to give.
@learnandteach01
I may come from a very different background, so this post is something I can't really imagine. It may be because I don't really believe in most superstitions (or I hope that 😂).
The part with a pregnant woman, why not? I honestly can't see any problems with that as long as both want it.
And generally, in my opinion it is like going for drinks. You can go with your best friend every so often, dring at home, meet strangers for a drink or drink no alcohol at all and focus on other things. And different people have different goals, regardless of male or female. And these goals change over time and depending with whom you drink. And if you like tasting parties, then good for you, same as always having the same thing, different people, different tastes 😊
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Yes you are right, some see having sex with random people as a sport/game. It is just a background moral shinigans i think.
I am honored by your contribution dear @reggaemuffin
The ability to smell individual components essentially becomes a dog’s way of seeing the world. Although they have limited color vision and can detect motion fairly well, dogs have various vision challenges...my puppy sniff ..everything on the street ..and somethimes is desgusting .
But i love my puppy 🤗
Today were going in the park yeeeeyyy 😁
Definitely yoy did not read the content🤔🙄
Nope , im at work . I have seen the dog and the description bellow .
After i have readed all the post
My mistake .
Sorry..
:-) very rare sight that I get here. For my cultural group, this is a dying out view of how people can affect others. Although I claim that the moral code is almost identical, but not the consequences described. To jump into bed with the first one is also reprehensible in Germany for both sexes, whereas from my perspective women are judged more sharply in this.
On the one hand, I think it is a remnant of witch-faith that has survived until modern times in a different, non-substantial form (the woman's power over the man, to name just one keyword - which I do not believe in, to be honest) and on the other hand the fear of illness and infections. It also shimmers through "the enticing woman", such as Eve, who tastes from the tree of forbidden fruits and drags Adam into perdition. So Christian mythology or faith. Superstition is only such a superstition if a minority believes in the consequences you describe and there is no consensus on them in the general public.
Avoiding people who have a negative aura (self-defeating types and those who can make themselves and others unhappy) is more of a modern term.
If women in your culture act with the conscious intent of harming a man, this may carry the still living legacy of a conviction within them. This is difficult to prove and therefore not relevant from a scientific point of view.
In Buddhism it is said that thoughts are also important and not just what we say or how we act. If I am mentally focused on something negative, such as cherishing the idea of harming someone else, this is more likely to affect myself than the one I curse.
Whether my curse can actually have an effect on another one could be tried to prove by scientific studies; if anyone would be interested.
Similar experiments have been made, but not from person to person, but from person to water or water molecules. The water was "talked to" with both negative and positive intentions. The structure of the molecules was then examined under the microscope and a difference was found.
Thus the molecules of the positively affected water appeared harmonious and in an accurate or geometric structure, whereas the water that was exposed to destructive thoughts and words did not have proper structures. But then you would have to see again whether a geometrical structure that is nice for us deserves the attribute "good" and vice versa.
All in all, I do not think much of the view that one person can fall victim to another in this totality, since it is a very simple linear view of cause and effect. Rather, I assume that there are so many unknown factors in the experience of "good" and "bad" of an individual that it is impossible to identify them all.
I am therefore quite calm about the provocative thoughts and information in your article.
Although I am open to magic and mysteries, as well as to rituals and traditions and try to remain open-minded and cosmopolitan. All of us should be careful not to spread dogmas and be friendly to each other. You can also say "No" to offers friendly, but definitely.
My provocative question to you: Would you not have this rather undefined fear of female power, would you want to touch every woman?