I'm Sorry. I Can't Support You.steemCreated with Sketch.

in #steemit7 years ago
Shame On You

Why? I support all kinds of people. In the weeks since Best of Steemit debuted, I've spotlighted hundreds of new and emerging authors of all kinds of material, most of them minnows, many of them seriously obscure. Why won't I support your post?

Because you asked me to.

Look, I don't want to be mean about this. I know it's hard to get noticed as a minnow, when we're all so small in such a big world. I know you're trying to support your family/lifestyle/drug habit, and that my .17 would be a huge boost toward that next kid/apartment/doobie. But I'm not giving it to you, and I'm not giving it to you specifically because you asked me to.

Every post is an ask. Every time you post anything on Steemit, you're asking me to support you, by definition. No one posts anything on here and says "please do not upvote this post, and don't you dare follow me. If you comment, I'll have you shot."

When you post something, no matter what it is, you're asking for support. That's a given. Do not, I BEG you, ask me again three times in the body of your copy. That's not creation of anything valuable; that's an advertisement made by you for you. If your copy isn't already selling me, I guaran-damn-tee you your begging me isn't going to change my mind. Just don't.

And the new thing seems to be rattling your tin cup in the headline: "Original Post Please Resteem and Upvote!" Haha. No. Not only will I never resteem this, not only will I never upvote it, I won't even look at it. You will get nothing. You want my attention? Here are three things you can do:

  1. Promote someone else. You want to beg? Do it for someone besides yourself. It's way less pathetic.
  2. Have a headline and a photo that makes me want to read your post. Put some thought into it.
  3. Correctly tag your post. If you post a drawing of your girlfriend's left elbow, and you tag it "Steemit", because that's the number one tag in the space, I will see that and I will pass you by.

Maybe I'm alone here, and maybe your self-pimping tactic is picking you up money and SP, but I doubt it, and I'll fight it where I can. Inevitably, the space is going to get cluttered up by junk, because money attracts crap better than crap attracts flies, but I don't have to like it and I don't have to sit idle while it happens, either.

If you're going to be a whale (by my estimates, it will take me about a year), and who doesn't want that, you're going to get there with posts of original content, of good quality, and (mostly) by pushing many others up as fast as you can. No whales ever got their baleen and blubber with posts that did nothing but call attention to their creators. In this space, especially, but everywhere else as well, if you wanna get, learn to give. And learn to give without expecting anything to come back to you. It's a lot less stressful, and far more genuine, that way.

~Cristof

P.S. I make a small exception for witnesses, who actually have to tell me they're running so that I'll know and can vote for them. I don't mind that nearly so much. And as far as I can tell, witnessing is just work, and not a whole lot of fun or money. That's a fine thing to ask for help with. Otherwise? Blech.


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Oh, I love this post so much.
I want to take every word and sprinkle them like candy morsels on the frosting of my steemit cup-cakes.

Thank you for preachin' to the masses and with class.

Hey, kids! Look! It's a metaphor! No, really, not like the ones in the zoo, but walking around in the wild!

Have an upvote for that lovely comment. Thank you for stopping by. Mind if I follow?

Are you stalking me? Because that would be cool, what with me being out in the wild and all, freely being a truly metaphorical genus.

(pun intended to look like a typo ... I get frightened sometimes and feel that I must explain myself)

I give you permission not to explain yourself to me. I understand all too well how some things can be perceived, but this isn't a place you have to worry about that.

Re-Steemed, in the hope of enlightening the latest crop of beggars that come
'round my blog... Thanks!

😄😇😄

@creatr

In the summer heat
a friendly word is enough
please read my haiku

You have my support always, friend! ;)

:)

Hahahahaha...

😂 this is awesome, and exactly how I feel. Great original post, no, seriously. 👍🏻

You don't think I dropped that hammer just a bit too hard? I tried to back off a bit...

But man, I get so hashed about people begging me for things that I want to give them anyway! Trust us! We will like you!

Not one bit, it's everything I am thinking but haven't said yet. And I dig the humor.
Nobody likes being spammed by beggars.

I get where you're coming from, and I totally agree.

Also, for you fellow minnows (and I am about as minnow as you can get) don't comment on a post saying "Nice post. Follow me"

I won't follow you, because I have no reason to.

Engage with me.
Have a conversation.
Discuss my post.
Find some common ground.
Put in a little effort.

Do that, and have content that might interest me, and I'll follow you, just like I follow @cristof because he has good content.

And I'll follow back, because you didn't ask me to. See how lovely this little exchange is? Heck, for a comment like this, have .14.

Thanks for stopping by.

See how that worked?

So instead of begging for followers, be someone worth following :-)

But I'm already following you. Oh, wait. Here's some money, because you didn't ask for that, either.

Precisely this! I've been tumbling a potential post with this idea in mind but there's enough comments and full on posts along this vein already so I'll just upvote them instead XD

I really appreciated reading this post. I've noticed myself getting annoyed by folks asking for a follow or a resteem, even as a signature at the end of their posts. And you're absolutely right about the best strategy being to help others with upvotes and such. It has a way of coming back to you in unexpected ways.

Hi Cristof, great post, you write what a lot of people on Steemit are thinking! This is worth an upvote and a resteem! Like you said, money attracts more and more 'crap'-posts, begging and "I follow you if you follow me", ... But we can't be to angry about it, new people need to learn how this 'ecosystem' works and what value they can add. But like you said to, we don't have to sit and let all of it happen, nope, posts like this are good for others to learn and to think about their behaviour! Spread the word!

Someone I know asked me if Steemit was like Reddit, and I said, "only because there are posts on both." This is a really positive community, a great place to hang out, and I'm glad you came by so I could meet you. Keep working. We'll get there.

Great blog, very well written and well perceived 🙂

I understand you! Please don't upvote this comment. Lol.

Keep up the good job man

Interesting information. I just got here a few days ago and have been reading posts like crazy trying to learn. I notice maybe 70% have personal ads in the second half - some have a wall of links and that is really putting me off. I'm an ex-tsuser and came looking for the community that others tell me they are finding here. I hope I find it too, but advertising is a pet peeve of mine and I try hard to avoid it.

There's plenty of good stuff out there, but searching it out is time-consuming. I have a Best of Steemit I run every day (except this week), and there are good curation posts linked in a couple of my past editions. None of those posts are ads. I wish you luck and Godspeed. I'll be following.

Thank you so much! Gotcha back. I will definitely look at your list posts. I have found some amazing people and posts here since I commented and I know I can avoid the rest. Feeling hopeful :)

Fingers crossed. Godspeed.

Man! I can feel you are really edgy on this @cristof . There must be a lot of minnows out there who are really draining your patience, isn't it?
I for one, too am a minnow, by the way, but if you think my posts are nice enough for you to even vote as an encouragement, then feel free to do so.
Otherwise it is all good; I will definitely remember NOT to beg but I will not shoot you down either.
In fact, I wont even vote this post, because my voting power is not powerful and it doesn't make much difference. Everyone is already resteeming your frustration.
Have a good day. Smile, and take a deep breath.

A momentary annoyance, I assure you. And minnows don't come in only one flavor. Some do things for the long term, working to build a following by offering quality content rather than linkbaiting. Others...well, not so much. I was probably way too forceful in my response, and sadly, this post got more commentary than anything I've written yet. I wish it hadn't.

Thanks for taking the time to comment. And my upvote is worth pennies, but you get it.

Thanks @cristof , I appreciate that. I actually did not see this notification until I tried to skim through for a comment. Your vote is greatly appreciated. Mine at this point of time consistently remained at 1 cent most of the time.
I get what you mean. After this post of yours, some days down the road I spotted not just the "support" beggars, the worse part are the "counterfeit makers" (as I have decided to coin it LOL) and I actually wrote a post about it and I know how it feels when the nerve is hit (even for a short while) :)

Yeah. It's kinda rough out there with Steem down around $1.20. We could use a rebound!

It might probably jump back up when BTC hard fork happens in August, I heard.

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