He Is A Chipmunk VIII, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, part 6 and part 7.
To these two ladies, I say you deserve a man who can’t believe his luck that he has such a wonderful person as you, someone who appreciates all your hard work your contribution and affection. Swine don’t appreciate pearls.
Leke Alder said and I quote:
”Sometimes in relationships, we want to “help” someone, to save someone, yet we cannot save anyone. You will only court grief. Your motherly instinct may want to do all that saving and nurturing; only you are not dealing with a teenager. You are dealing with an adult. It would never work. There are relationships whose trajectory obviously point to pain, disillusionment and disappointment. Have the wisdom to get out of such, and when you won’t but circumstances aid you, accept it and be grateful.” – Leke Alder
Those words are powerful and I believe are self-explanatory, regardless of who is facing such situation; either a guy or a lady. Broken relationship is at least better than a broken marriage.
The thing about bad marriage is that it weighs heavily on the spirit. You feel old, act old, puts furrow to the forehead, etc and this is why you have to make the right choice in your marriage partner. There is a limit to the burden you can carry. You are not a heavy duty vehicle that needs to bear the whole burden of a relationship. Find your kind. Find another liberal, giving and generous person like you, and you will be the happiest. Don’t stick around the person that tires you out. If you marry a selfish and inconsiderate guy, so who cares for you?
He will soon appreciate you when he sees all you have done but let him go and wait for the person that will appreciate your worth. You have all it takes to make a relationship work, so be yourself and stop crying. He is a chipmunk and rightly so.
THE END
Thank you for your time.
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A relationship is about living happily. A bad marriage and relationship is like living with a dead body who never care about other presence and their feeling. To live happily there must be two way communication where both the soul listen and help support each other to make a meanibgful life.
Loved it dear @olawalium 👍
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I always enjoy the way you think. This is really practical and i love it:
"A bad marriage and relationship is like living with a dead body who never care about other presence and their feeling".
Relationship is indeed a two way street.
Aww..thanks dear....this one is pure mine...just made it while putting up 😉
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It is beautiful. I love it.
It is beautiful. I love it.
It is beautiful. I love it.
Hello @olawalium ,marriage life is different from single life. When you get married with someone then you are bound to care about your partner.
A lot of hurdles and problems are expected in married life, so both the parties should behave gently with each other.
Exactly, marriage takes a lot of consideration. This is why before deciding who you need to settle with, watch out for the character rather than the personality.
Thanks my friend for replying and giving attention to my comments.
Your behaviour impressed me a lot
I always enjoy your comments my friend. Really appreciate you.
I always enjoy
Your comments my friend. Really
Appreciate you.
- olawalium
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Have a great day
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You too, brother.
Of course he will appreciates what she has done for her and will be too late for him to thank her and then he will miss her so much cos she wont ever find people like her
He just lost whats worth more than diamonds and golds
Excellent post...my dear friend...i love your post 📪
