He Is A Chipmunk VI, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4 and part 5.
A relationship in which one party is extremely focused on self will only bring sadness and hurt to the other party – Leke Alder.
In life, you need to be grateful, more so in a relationship. There was the story of a man that has never travelled before. He performed all forms of panic moment in the plane and he was assisted by his seat mate who doesn’t even know him, to feel comfortable and at ease. They reached their destination and he acted as if he doesn’t even know this same person that helped him. It was obvious that a guy like this would find it easier to forget anyone’s act of kindness. Imagine if it was a lady that sponsored that trip for him? That would be a sorry case for that lady.
Learn to reciprocate good gestures that you have received from your spouse. I use to think ladies are the ones that are laid back and hardly bother about reciprocating gestures but seeing the guy that was the basis of this series, I can see that it goes both ways.
I said it in earlier chapters that this lady in question should in some ways be happy and relieved this guy went away. If she could have invested so much in him and he deemed it fit to chase another lady because he now has a better paying job, forgetting all the years of sacrifice from this lady, then there is nothing this guy won’t be capable of during marriage. This is a blessing in disguise. She would have paid the price with her life. The new lady should not be overly excited too, because it would go round and I wish she knows about the story too, so she can make her decision.
Imagine another case of a man who had two girlfriends, and then borrowed money from one just to marry the other. He said it was for a business transaction. As hard as it must have been for the lady that was duped, I think she should organize a thanksgiving service or go to her church to have one. What a terrible thing it must have been to be married to such a guy. Often times, the things we consider as pain in our lives, either from a broken relationship or one form of heartbreak or the other, are actually a blessing in disguise. It hurts, no doubt, but look at the positive side of it too.
…to be continued…
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Yes it goes both ways. Some guilty ladies hurts the innocent men while some guilty men too hurts innocent ladies. And when you are hurts, its hard to trust again and thats why true love is hard to find these days
Gratitude is must . whatever life gives in anyway you must be thankful to it. And in same wsy whosoever helps you. Getting over so easily is not a best sign of humanity. Many people come alongs your journey, many People will support and gives you a helping hand....it doesn' t mean they are only there for these. May be god is showing you the correct way and we should be thankful to it.
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The Man should behave well with his spouse. He needs to care her so that she feel secure with him. If he married her then he should not think of other girls.