He Is A Chipmunk III, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1 and part 2.
So, this lady is from a wealthy family and fell in love with this guy. She attended a different university from the guy but this guy is from a humble background. She did all she could to sponsor this guy, even though this guy has parents. She took the burden on herself and would get double money from home just to see this guy through.
They looked like a match made in heaven. The man is all she ever wanted and she has never been bothered about his humble background. She believed in him because he is not only handsome, he is smart, energetic and never the lazy type. She sponsored him from the first year to the last. He graduated with a good result and grade and that was when her father passed away. She felt empty and sad but her consolation was in the fact that, she has this guy.
The guy was blessed to get a very good job with eye popping pay check but that was the beginning of her travails. The guy simply said they can’t be together because he has found the love of his life and told the lady to move on because he is not willing to come to her when he has found what he has been looking for. This is sad.
My questions would be, when you knew she wasn’t your specification, why not stick to friendship? Why not tell her right from the start that you only appreciate her friendship? Why promise her heaven and earth only for reality to set in? Maybe this ‘friendship’ wasn’t destined for a love relationship but they both got it confused right from the start. There are some people that come into your life, not for you to date them but for them to help you grow, but often times we enjoy the comfort they give us so much that we feel to keep them around, we need to seal it with dating, and for those who give this comfort, they feel they should naturally be considered because they have given so much. Having a clear goal at the start of anything would save a lot of heartaches.
Relationship should be mutual and you need to have clearly defined goals. Honesty and selflessness helps a lot. If people could show a little bit more consideration and honesty, then I think we can have less heartbreak.
…to be continued…
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Ahh pretty sad....i know @olawalium most of the time you decorate your content through real life experiences...if this is one of them then really Feeling pretty sorry for the girl who have given almost everything to the guy just for sake of his development and growth. That guy comes out to be fake ..who only used her in some way to make her carreer...why he could not made it clear..i belive if he could made everything clear about his intention since behining then he made everyone happy even he would be blessed with a good friend in that girl and a life partner in form of his love.
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This is beautiful. You perfectly echoed my thoughts. Yes, it is a real life scenario and it hurts to watch her suffer that, from a man full of greed and selfishness. He would have made a friend in her even without the promise of love and she would have done what she felt she can as well. He simply used her. So bad.
Thanks, my friend.
Thats true dear....good to see we seenthings same...
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I always enjoy your views.
Hahaha...thanks
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Thanks @olawalium good to hear 👍
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Ahh pretty sad....i know @olawalium most of the time you decorate your content through real life experiences...if this is one of them then really Feeling pretty sorry for the girl who have given almost everything to the guy just for sake of his development and growth. That guy comes out to be fake ..who only used her in some way to make her carreer...why he could not made it clear..i belive if he could made everything clear about his intention since behining then he made everyone happy even he would be blessed with a good friend in that girl and a life partner in form of his love.
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It's a sad reality of the society that a boy forget every virtue of her after setting his business or getting a job. He should not leave her in good or bad circumstances. As now the boy has everything ,he should accept the girl wisely.
Sadly, he felt the lady wasn't good enough and he disappeared just when this lady need him the most. He has carved a deep hurt in her heart and there is no telling how she might heal. Thanks, my friend.
There may be a level of denial involved, which means you also have to be honest with yourself.
Absolutely. Be honest with yourself as to what you want and be honest with the person involved.
He wont ever go Scott free, karma would surely happen!
That's cheating, and unfair, he should have told her from start that she didn't love her
Yes, in life, we may not get what we paid for but we will surely pay for what we get and he will be served in full!. He toyed with a heart and that is unacceptable.
We often show one thing that boys and girls in school-college want to befriend themselves. In many of these friendships love to fulfill love and love. But in reality it is not possible for everyone, love can be born in someone else's life and no one is born. There is nothing to despair