Poetry Sunday: Love and War
Two of the most powerful relationships humans can have are love relationships and those based on war. Whether caused by hate, politics, geographical disputes, or something else, war is hell. William Tecumseh Sherman reminded us of that.
Of course, anyone who has been in love knows that love, too, has its hells. That's not to say there isn't an upside. But we tend to gloss over the downsides of love and keep the pleasant memories. We do just the opposite with war. For all its hell, it has its benefits.
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I wrote this poem in June 2015. At that time, I was in an Iraqi desert wishing I was home with my wife. We had celebrated our first anniversary just eight months prior, almost by proxy as I was at Fort Hood, Texas preparing for my year-long tour of duty with Operation Iraqi Freedom. It was a war I neither wanted nor supported, but I had volunteered to serve in the Texas Army National Guard. My number was called, so I did the honorable thing and served my country. I resigned the following December when my unit returned home.
"Love and War" is one of the first poems I had published among those I wrote that year. It won third place in an online contest and continues to linger.
I can't say this is my best poem. There are things I like about it and things I'd change. But poets, like actors and musicians, don't get to choose which parts of their work become others' favorites. It's best just to let them stand on their own, like children, and rise or fall on their own merits.
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David Anderson If you like this poem and want to read more from this period of my life, "Rumsfeld's Sandbox" is available at Amazon, even if it does have a crappy cover. I need to update my sales page; I've taken the Rumsfeld's Sandbox website off line, but I think you'll love the poems, and I'd be honored for you to read them.
Love and War
All is fair in love and war, they say;
But I am not so sure.
When love hurts it does not kill.
When she maims
She leaves a little something intact;
Though hearts break they can mend.
Time heals all wounds
Except those of war.
When the pain subsides, a scar still marks
Both body and soul.
The greatest battlefield is the human heart,
Moist and fallow and dry
Depending on the season.
Harvests come and go
Just as soldiers on the path,
But little is ever said of a lifetime.
Generals, and privates too, have their petty loves.
Warriors know the depth of loss,
The pain of wanting to be free.
Let Chalabi live, they say;
So much depends on his breath.
But Patrick Henry may die.
And no one loves his country without injury.
Betrayal begins where love and war unite
And ends when bombs begin to fall.
Sometimes knowing is too late.
Give me your eyes and ears,
Lend me your broken heart.
Trade your weapon for an arsenal
Or a stainless steel vessel of love
To guard your palace of peace.
If war be like love and love be like war,
Give me love. Give me just and total love.
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It is actually this quote form your prosaic introduction that I found most compelling. There is, I think, a poem in that insight.
In my experience, the War of Love (Divorce & Custody Battle) was worse than anything I experienced in the military. It's a different kind of anguish than what one finds on the battlefield ... and one I found considerably less tolerable.
In real war, one sees humanity stripped of it's thin veneer of civilization ... and sometimes, what you see is a horror. But more often, it is an thing that inspires awe. Loyalty, courage, honor, determination and ... self-sacrifice, when such words actually mean what they say.
There's nothing noble, nor anything than could be interpreted as noble, that emanates from Love Gone Bad (which 99% of the time involves betrayal ... lying, cheating and stealing). Trust ... is a terrible thing to lose, and a monstrous thing to make someone lose it.
“'Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
You won't here me say it often (he's an family ancestor), but in this instance, I think Tennyson was decidedly wrong.
Incidentally, a fine poem. :-)
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Thank you, kind sir. You have a keen eye for detail, and the insight to back it up. I truly appreciate what you bring to the table, and I agree about Tennyson. I have often thought that, as well. Better to have loved and lost ... blimey, only something a poet would say. ;-)
A complex and brilliant poem.
Verses like those compel the reader to examine concepts like Love, War, Peace, Betrayal - and how we have taken the meaning of such things for granted.
Thank you muchly, Your Kindness. :-)
What a skillfully written poem. You really know what you're doing. I know what good poetry is, which is why I don't write it. But if I could write like you, I wouldn't hesitate.
Thank you very much. I appreciate the compliment. And thanks for reading. :-)
That is such a beautiful piece of writing @blockurator... and I love it even more because of how it was born.
Thank you very much, @jaynie. I like to share a little bit about how the poems came into being, rather than simply post them and go on. I hope a little context adds something to the flavor of it. I really appreciate your comment, and thanks for reading.
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