To those who are working hard

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Any study without a plan is just a show

Any study without a plan is just a show and any effort that without purpose is just a fake effort.

Seems like staying up every night, but in fact, looking at the mobile phone non-stop.
Seems like go to the gym often, but just to take a selfie, and went back home without exercise.

If you want to become a successful person, only the surface hard work is not enough; you need to go deep to explore your interests, need to have a sound plan and indicators, rather than just saying.

Some time ago I saw a message in the group that consulting a problem; he said that he lives his time to fullness every day, why after half a year of studying and efforts, there is no slightest progress.

Then, I looked at the timetable he listed. Indeed very detail, one followed by another, time after time, very complete, very systematic, the details have done well.

If I were to give advice, my only advice would be:
The efficiency and acceptance rate are more important than presentation.

Some people set goals for themselves, only look at the completion of the task, rather than efficiency. When you read a book every day, if you don’t understand and analyze through the core of the content, such reading, doesn’t count as reading.

Therefore, the acceptance rate and efficiency are more important than the presentation, completion is one thing, how much you learned after completion is the core.

Study or effort must have the target index, rather than just to complete the goal, you need to have specific data as a standard, find out where’s the problem in a short time, do more research efficiently.

Over time, your efforts will become shorter, and your efficiency will be higher.

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Only outstanding people will get useful social

Do you know that socializing does not give you too much help when you are not an outstanding person? And even if you stay in a high social circle every day, your return is still low.

Keep in mind that the core of effective socializing is not the relationship between good and bad, but whether the two sides can work together to create miracles like 1+1=3.

I saw a quote a long time ago, which is: “Relationships are not about people who can help you, but people who you can help.”

But what does this mean?

I believe it means: You can only give each other your personal value, and take the initiative to help him in a certain field to be more complete, he will be able to return to you to provide you with the perfect place.

The core is to take the initiative to provide, but before you do this, you need to have your own core strength.

If you are not strong enough, socializing will not do you any good, and only an equivalent exchange can get reasonable help.

So don't spend a lot of time socializing when you're not strong enough to be good enough.

Take the time to read some books, improve your professional skills, become a person with a professional voice in a field, so that you can have more effective social power.

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The height of a person's life depends on the different uses of time

The world is fair because each of us has the same time. But each one of us uses the time to do things differently. How you use your time, determines what you will become.

Some people, feel tired during working, their work becomes inefficient. If you don’t hone your survival skills in the industry, most of the time you will fall in the muddle. After work does not take time to learn, play games, and sleep, a day is gone.

Want a successful life but do not want to work hard, there is no such a good thing.

Never teach people things you can't do

I like this quote, also practicing this quote, I think the real example is:

The things that other people seem to need to work hard on, you go ahead and do it yourself then tell them, “I'm sure you'll do the same like me, what you thought was hard before, but it wasn't really that difficult.”

That is why everyone likes to listen to the story told by successful people. I think the story of the successful people, is about his/her past; there are things he/she experienced, things he/she said we are sure he/she is real because is the things that the successful people did.

Perhaps he/she did not succeed, but he/she left a precious effort footprints, we can learn some valuable experience in his/her story.

You just have to try hard, to share with others, to share what kind of experience when you are doing it.

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