Love and freedom

Source: https://levantaterevista.wordpress.com/2016/08/17/la-libertad-del-amor/

If any idiot gives a definition of love ... I will give one that I concluded after reading Jorge Bucay; in the end, you may or may not assume me as another idiot, that's a decision, just like ...

Love is the decision to work actively for the freedom of another person, so that she can choose what she does with her life, include you or not. This is also an act of humility, because if it flies even though it is far from you, you will feel the happiness of having helped to spread wings. It is very difficult to feel for those who assume love, as they have not been taught .. "Love is naturally possessive", but this is as false as "without jealousy there is no love", NO, it is not so. Love is, love everything that freedom has allowed you to be the person that is ... if you made you make mistakes, you are today the consequence of those mistakes and if you can live with it and feel happy-sad, but realized, you must expect to be loved as the consequence of your freedom!

Love is one thing, the couple is another and friendship is another ... they can be mutually inclusive or exclusive, according to the level of "freedom" that applies ... there are cases like ...

• A couple that remains united but without love and yet very friends ... (Void null, do not want to release because it is considered a property).

• Loving friends who are not a couple ... (Freedom / is active / s, although they may be not being free by third parties).

• Friends who explore and end up having nothing, neither love, nor a couple nor friendship. (Freedoms not compatible).

• A pair of absolute strangers, hating each other (the passion of hate is equal to that of love), for not even being friends (First case).

• A couple very in love with a plus of friendship that keeps them in the flower of the relationship (ideal liberties).

In short .... Love is a feeling that becomes complex as you debate with social precepts; Then in summary, my advice is ... Love without measures or conditions to the person that is a consequence of their freedom, with that you will be happy, whatever the link you have with that person ..!