Living between wanting to do and not wanting to do
There is no one in this world who can do whatever he/she wants.One of the meanings of this sentence is that there are always regrets in life, and another meaning of this sentence is that life is always painful.
Desire is to keep digging holes for you, and constantly let you crawl out of the pit. When the pit is getting deeper, you are getting harder to climb out, your pain will also become deeper.
A lot of times in life, it's not something you don't want to do that makes you unbearable, but it's what you want to do that seduces you too much and making you blur.
The blur means you're not sure you can do it either, but you imagine you can do it.
So the calm and pain are the result of your reluctance to be calm.
Want to do and do not want to do is not only a choice of life but also the choice that must be made in our life.
Want to bake a cake, but whether this cake can become a reality, one depends on whether you have the ability to make the cake, the other is to test you have the courage to make the cake.
The biggest difference between you and successful people is not whether you want to or not, not whether you can or can’t, but whether you dare or not.
This is life, on the one hand, hesitate to do, on the other hand, struggling in the circle of ‘don’t want to do.’
The greatest benefit of the future is that you can always wait, but the greatest benefit of the future is that it will never come to you on its own initiative.
Life is not a game of leveling up and kill bosses, but being alive is very much like the game of leveling up and kill bosses.
Different kind of person has a different kind of equipment.
Life has an ability to be called possess, and a refusal called defend.
The key to living out of yourself is to be yourself.
Life is like this, if you are not living in the rules set by others, then you are living in the rules set by yourself.
Refuse is to build yourself a place where you can hide from the wind and rain.
Because when the door open, you will have nowhere to hide, and the closure of the door will make you covered in wounds.
True defend is neither about the open door nor the closed door.
Instead, it is about opening the door that you can choose for yourself, and let the person you like come in and let the person you don't like to walk away.
Make a choice start from yourself, want to do and do not want to do often at a glance. Make a choice based on others, want to do and do not want to do often difficult to choose.
When you build your happiness on others, you can only look up to the sky of others. When you build your happiness based on you, you will always look up to your own starry sky.
A lot of time in life, you will meet people you do not like, need to do things you don’t like. The things and people you like will have the same length as the things and people you don’t like.
From hate to like, not because your mind has changed, is that your ability has changed, that is, either you give up and accept your fate, or you work hard.
We can’t just follow the flow of life, struggling in want to do and do not want to do is always be yourself and give up, the pain of human nature.
For the world, you will never be able to choose both, that is, you either give up on yourself, make yourself a part of others, or be yourself and let others be a part of you.
And as mortals, many times we can only swing back and forth between the two extremes, sometimes we have to follow others, and sometimes others will follow us.
It is in this mutual relationship, we put life through both bland and ups and downs, both magnificent and uneventful.
Life is in this way back and forward and becoming vaster.
This is the process of destiny and the result of destiny.
The destiny will always clamp down your first second to your latter second.
Therefore, instead of a senseless sigh in the latter second, you might as well resist bravely in the first second.
Life can start when you want to start over again, and if you don't want to start over, you can find a reason to excuse yourself.
Want to do and don't want to do a lot of times is not that you have no way, but you don’t have an idea, you don’t know where to go, don’t know how to work hard, so can only stop in the same place, sunk in the struggle of life.
Many times, it’s not that people do not want to, but more afraid of losing what they have got.
Want to do is the ideal, don’t want to do is a reality.
Ideal, although beautiful, but can only imagine. Although the reality is very uncomfortable but it is real.
Ideal never wins the reality is not because the ideal is not good enough, but because the reality is too real.
What this means is that a lot of times, your pain is not because too much temptation on you want to do, but because you need to give up too many benefits for you don't want to do.
Wanting to do is a standard, it's not a goal you really want to achieve. It's a comfort, a fantasy when you don't have the courage.
People can endure meaningless life because they have not found a more meaningful life.
The ideal is not about arriving, but never to arrive.
Life is only at a close, but being alive is always on the horizon, living in between want to do and don't want to do, other than wandering, there is nothing else in life.
This is the paradox of life, but also the meaning of life.
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