If you always make the wrong choice, it is because you're not capable enough

One of my cousins said that the thing that he most regretted in his life was that he didn’t go to mandatory military service at 18.

He said that everything was ready at the time, ready to set off at any time, but at last moment, he gave up. Why he gave up? Because he's going to be a hairdresser with his friend next door.

As a result, he became a hairdresser. Even if he went into the army, he believes that with his character, he will be doing good in the army.

At the most critical time in life, he chose the wrong path. If you choose a wrong path, your efforts will be wasted.

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Many people know that hard work is better than talent, and choice is better than hard work, choice is more important than hard work. But in my opinion, although choice is more important than hard work, the choice itself is a skill that requires a lot of practice and a lot of effort to hone.

Many critical moments in life need to be faced with choices.

When you go to school, you need to choose your school;

After high school, you need to choose the profession.

After work, you also need to choose a suitable job.

Even when you are married, it is a very difficult subject to choose what kind of partner you are choosing.

But choice is not just luck. In examination, there are a lot of multiple choice questions, but there are several people who can rely on luck to pass the examination.

If you can’t even answer a question with four choices, how you gong to face the boundless life and social reality?

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The ability to make good choice is the result of efforts. It contains a lot of information collection, analysis, and careful contrast. This is a complicated cognitive process.

This is the difference between wonk and slacker, but also the gap of excellent and ordinary. Although all may be a gamble, some people have 80% certainty, some people have 90% certainty, and some people may only have less than 1% of chances to win.

My friend, Lin, is doing one thing recently, is consulting those small businesses that doesn’t do well.

For example, a restaurant, why the business is good, or why the business not good. He will set out a series of lists, including the location, dining environment, dishes, services, prices, brands and so on, and find the crux of the problem.

His work gave me a great revelation. If you can do this on business, why can’t we use this in our life? Since there are a lot of choices in life, are we going to be able to make such an assessment when facing critical moments?

Just like people who choose the right answer from multiple choice question, we can’t rely entirely on luck or intuition, we must have the ability to assess the critical moments of choice. In fact, those who are doing well, their ability to assess during critical moments are not too bad.

After all, the choice of life is often an either-or; continue to study or start working; Be an employee or be an employer; In these problems, you often can only choose one of them.

If you choose the right choice, you already half success, but if you choose wrong, you will have a delay in your life. If you choose wrong, your efforts may be wasted. After all, when the direction is reversed, the harder you move forward, the more likely you are moving away from your original goals.

How to make sure you choose the right choice as much as you can? Just like my friend Lin did, at the critical moment, you must use all your knowledge, intelligence and luck to make a critical assessment of the choices you will make.

Many people in the choice of life, never want to do such an assessment. Their choice is entirely by temperament, by sense.

They never considered their conditions, their surroundings, and their future. In fact, when making choice at a critical moment, we should consider these three things. If we think clearly, we are already halfway to success.

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When we are facing the choices, we must assess ourselves.

From the character to the talent, to the effort, then to the hardship spirit, even includes our popularity, the network, and the resources, as well as the family who support us, our parents ' strength and so on.

Because these things will be the factors in your future success.

Think clearly about these questions, you should think whether you like your choice, this is very important.

It turns out that if you don't like it, the outcome of the choice must be a tragedy.

Choose a person you do not like and hurt yourself, you will eventually be very painful;

Choose a career you don't fit in, you'll probably have to hold on to it for the rest of your life.

In addition, you have to figure out the future of what you have chosen.

A person, if the times are helping him, then there is nothing to stop him, it is called the right timing.

A person who is doing well must have the ability to make a comprehensive assessment when making choices at the critical moment. If you do not have the ability, you might be getting lucky to choose the right choice, but you cannot choose with your luck for the rest of your life.

But this ability does not come easily. Other than innate sensitive intuition, this is the results of a long-term effort, accumulation, and analysis.

You have to choose or give up something, you must understand yourself and understand it. Some people can easily make the right choice is because of their long-term efforts, long-term accumulation, know their enemy and have a clear idea how this thing works.

Now, if I casually throw a multiple choice question to you, even if choose one from two, you cannot guarantee yourself will choose the right answer because you do not understand, so you can only blindly guess.

Of course, when you focus on one thing for a long time, you will learn to understand yourself.

To know yourself, in addition to the conscious self-analysis, you also need the long-term accumulation of the intuition.

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When you become an expert in a field, you will be judged clearly, the basic trend of its future development

Professional people will always make the right choice. If you're wrong, it's not just that you're unlucky, but that you've given all your chances of winning to luck.

In fact, fate is often grasped in our own hands, if you are professional enough to have the ability, even if luck, it will be in your choice.

I still remember my classmate once said, I never believe that a person can get into Harvard by luck. But he added that he believed that a capable man, even with bad luck, can easily get into Stanford. 

Do not say choice is more important than the efforts, to be able to choose correctly, you will also need efforts.

Those who are doing well, are they just choosing the right path? If someone else makes the same choice as them, will that make him successful?

I doubt it very much, if I was the founder of Steemit, will Steemit become successful? Steemit might already be gone.

After all, I'm not familiar with blockchain. Those who make the right choice are in fact divided into two aspects:

1. They have chosen what fits them the most;

2. They try their best to make the choice they made a move in the best direction. And these are the keys to success.

If you do not try to make yourself more professional, do not regret the choice you made. Even if time goes back again, it will be the same result. Even if you make another choice, the future might not be the way you imagined it.

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