Don't angry, be worthy
A few years ago, I helped my aunt to take care of her son for a few days.
He has a skipping rope competition in school. He would like to participate, but his coordination ability is not good enough, although he is not doing well, he has been trying.
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One night when he was practicing skipping rope at home, he asked me to help him count. Suddenly, he excitedly said: "I did it!" I'm finally qualified to join the competition. I don’t care if they laughed at me, I surpass them, I am better than them! "I am confused with his words.
It turns out that when he was practicing skipping rope in school, some students laughed at his ugly action, said he was bulky like a bear.
"No matter how they laughed, I will not be angry, because angry is useless, angry can’t help me improve my skills, and make my heart not comfortable. I want to be good, secretly diligent, surpass them, let them know how good I am! "Looking at his confidence, I gave him a thumbs-up.
After a period of practicing, his skipping rope skills improve a lot, and won first place in the competition. If he had been annoyed by the derision of others, he would not have practiced in meditation, let alone qualified for a good result.
I am gratified at his growth and progress, and I still remember two years ago, he only gets 70 for his English test. To him, the test result is the worse compared with previous test results. Those who usually score worse him and get higher than him, they surrounded him and schadenfreude him. He was angry, and tears are coming down.
After coming home, he took out the test paper showed to me, angrily said: "The teachers are wrong on some questions and deducted more than 10 points, and the students laugh at me."
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I touched his head and comforted him: "Don't care about the loss of the moment, as long as you have mastered the field, the gold will shine sooner or later. For the ridicule of others, more unnecessary angry, angry will not only make you sad but also waste your time. If you are angry, you might as well struggle to make yourself stronger."
Since then, I rarely see him get angry, he became more and more stable, become more excellent. He also used this sentence as his motto: Don't angry, be worthy.
In fact, I also experienced countless setbacks to realize this motto.
When I was a child, the headmaster called me to the office to record voice, and I was happy to go. As a result, he asked me to help a classmate in his lip sync, equivalent to introduce himself, because the school nominated him as the top student, but his pronunciation is not good enough.
I was very angry when I learned the truth, and could not wait to turn away, but because of fear of the headmaster, I had to endure grievances and recorded that lip sync.
I was holding my tears and ran out of the office, but in my heart, I silently swore: I must make up for this, and strive to become my protagonist, rather than other people's doubles.
I studied hard until I was admitted to a university. When I grew up, I found that that matter is nothing, the headmaster was not malicious, but I was not so open-minded to the heart. Luckily I did not get flustered, but by virtue of a courage to give up, motivate myself to become good, work harder so that I can become better.
When I think about it, should I be more thankful for that little episode?
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I have a friend, Carol, after graduating, she worked in a company service for many years, she was dedicated, very responsible, and won the love of most colleagues. She also cherishes this job and intended to continue work for few more years. But in her rise to the occasion, the company hired a new colleague Helene, she is the boss's relatives, she doesn’t have any special talents, but she is good at gossip.
Carol is kind, she tries to stay away from Helene so that she can avoid conflict. But Helene is an insatiable, envy Carol’s good popularity, deliberately find her stubble, framed her, and take a beating.
Carol was depressed, a colleague suggested her to give a dose of her own medicine. Carol was embarrassed, kind person like her can't do such a thing. In that very difficult day, she encouraged herself to be strong and man up. She decided to improve herself to resolve the pain, she enrolled in a night school. A year later, she got a professional qualifications.
With this stepping stone, she went into the world's top 500 company, so that her colleagues, especially Helene, will be envy and impressed.
After the storm, Carol said, she was also very suppressed, she also wanted to point at Helene, and complained to the boss. But she knows, getting angry is useless, complain is useless, angry will only destruct her image, let herself become worse, and her future become bleak.
Looking back, she even thanked the fates for arranging people like Helene to be around her. Before, she was moving without a hitch, this setback is undoubtedly a test from the god. Fortunately she withstood, and surrendered with a satisfactory answer.
In a person's life, more or less will experience some setbacks, there will be bad day. Judging a person's EQ level, good at controlling emotions, is certainly one of the important. When a person in adversity or suffered injustice, it is the best if he can control the mood, not be angry, keep a clear mind and improve their own strength.
When you are strong enough, you will not be afraid of unpredictable wind and rain to fly high and enjoy a more wonderful scenery.
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Good words! Very inspiring and motivational.
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