How you treat your life, your life will treat you back the same way
Every Monday, during my company's coffee break, we always discuss "where we went during the weekend?"
Everyone was talking, but only Sharon sat at the side, drinking milk tea. I guess, Sharon must be as usual, stayed at home, sleeping, watching dramas, reading novels and playing games.
Sharon family is quite rich, she rented an apartment near the company, occasionally will invite me to her house to watch movie.
Sharon does not like to clean up her house, every time I went to her house, I can see a large stack of courier boxes at the door. The table in the living room is placed with takeout dining box and a variety of fast food products, the floor scattered with hair, and dirty clothes on the sofa.
I asked Sharon why don't you clean up your house, she said: "I live alone, feel comfortable is the most important. It's okay to be messy, nobody will see it anyway."
As a result, the courier boxes and useless rubbish piled up more and more, occupied the place that Sharon originally used to practice yoga;
Originally spacious and bright house, under Sharon "management," the activity space only left the dining table, cabinet at the corner and the bed full of clothes.
Later, Sharon complained to me that her life other than drama and games are getting more and more boring.
The fast food and a long overdue exercise made her unconsciously gains 10 pounds. She looks tired, too lazy to go out and socialize, and has fewer friends around.
I told Sharon: "How you treat life, life will treat you the same way." Those you feel comfortable is actually just a lazy excuse, if you do not manage it, good days will not come and find you. If you don’t start changing, your life will be destroyed by your bad habits.
Life is like a monster-revealing mirror, no matter how beautiful you dress up in front of others, it can pierce through all disguises, and projecting the most real you in every day.
When you think life is boring, even perfunctory you, in fact, is because you are the first who perfunctory life! If you provoke life, you will eventually get its fatal blow.
Too lazy to live hard, in fact, is most people's common problems.
When I just started working, I had a period like Sharon, every day feeling tired, after work will straight go home, takeout and instant noodles as dinner, no hobbies, unwilling to socialize, the whole life was lifeless.
That time, my cousin was cooking at home, so she asked me to join her for dinner.
I still remembered the first time when I entered my cousin's house, I was completely fell in love with the cleanliness and warmth of the house.
Simple beige furniture placed at the reasonable place, not occupying too much place. The ground and the window are spotless; the table is also covered with beige floral tablecloth, looks concise and generous.
When we were eating, I complained to my cousin about my busy and boring life after work.
While she shared her experiences.
Never perfunctory every morning and evening that belongs to you:
Get up early every morning to prepare breakfast, sometimes millet, eggs and bean bag. Sometimes milk, whole wheat bread with nuts, fruit. Full of food in the morning, to work with energy.
Wash your face after work, wash away the tired and prepare a sumptuous dinner for yourself. She said the takeaway would never replace the happiness of your cooking. If we perfunctory food, food is just a thing to eat. If we are willing to cook ourselves, the food will be delicious in return.
Never perfunctory every inch of your home space:
Never store rubbish at home, clean regularly, throw away things regularly, and keep the room neat and tidy at all times. Leave a room for green planting and a small space for exercise. After a busy day, at least you have a neat and comfortable home waiting for you.
You shouldn’t waste your weekend. Go for cycling with your friends, watch a movie, or paint at home, read a good book, can also add to the richness of life.
People who live hard always get the rewards of life, no wonder every time I see my cousin, she feels energetic and full of energy.
That precious dinner time, thoroughly saved me from my sloppy life. I learned to look at my cousin's life, cultivate my little hobby, by changing bit by bit, I also see life brought me some surprise.
Sometimes, we feel that study, work is tired enough, always want to avoid all kinds of trouble. When facing the various options of life, we always want to choose the simplest and easiest choice, but, we know, because of the fear of trouble and perfunctory, we are doing this to our life.
Many young people live like this:
Often feel sleepy during daytime, mental dispirited, that is because they never sleep on time, always stay up until late night;
Often feel life is boring, inner emptiness, it is because they sacrifice their free time to game and drama;
Often feel physical decline, walking on the stairs will feel tired easily, it is because they have not exercise for too long, always like to stay at home.
If there is no social app, they have no friend, no app to order food and can’t survive without video app.
If you muddle with your life, your life will muddle with you with the debt you owe.
The smaller the things, the more you will be able to test how will you treat your life. Those who take life seriously, and does not perfunctory with life, life will return with it’s greatest respect.
Those past days that you perfunctory, after a long time, they will become a deep gully, disappearing in the rapid passage of life.
And those days that you have been treated with your heart will not fade, they will always sparkle and shine for you.
This is the best gift for you if you treat your life well.
good story
thank you so much
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STOPDamn, this is what happens if you spoil your children. They get lazy, entitled and super sensitive.
Aka children growing up in the west in a nutshell.
There clearly is a lack of feminine mothers and masculine fathers.
No surprises for me, I knew immediately that the girl was depressed after the first couple of sentences.
Moral of the story: Productivity = Happiness
We need fathers like this again:
I don't understand why most of the young parents like to spoil their children. Not only they become lazy, it will affect their future too.
And also another thing, why they let their children play their phone. I know it can make the children quiet, but the kid is just less than one year old, not only it will make the kid addict to the phone and it is not good for their eyes.
Sorry, end of my rant.
Thanks for your comments, you made a great point :)
I fully agree with what you wrote. Parents must learn that rewarding bad behavior or giving children everything they want is just plain stupid.
Stupid parents make stupid children.
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