My World This Week.. ๐๐ป ๐ฏ
Wow how quickly time flies! ๐
What's higher up today folks? Another week has passed..
Will we please take a moment to re-cognize how easy life can be when we are having fun! Living full of passion while facing fears and challenges head one. Taking one step at a time towards our goals and aspirations.
Will we feel fully into appreciation for how far we have come? Will we count our blessings right now in this very moment.. ๐๐ป Will we pay attention to them and even share in the comments if we feel so inspired..
Will we level up and tell our best feeling story today? Will we allow each one to love and be loved? Will we attract with the power of honoring our word vibration? Will we be our best example of joy-fully present?
Will we serve the greater whole and help others experience a-bun-dance! ๐
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I don't have a ton of things to share this week since it's all been such a blur. Like literally being full time parents does weird things to you, you can't really list all the things because you don't ever fully start and finish any one project..
We constantly run out of time and have to move on to the next thing on his schedule ๐ Flexibility is key as well as keeping open channels of communication between Mom and Dad. Any time we forget to check in with each other, one of us feels over worked ๐ or unsupported. It's not always only about what we have to do, it's more often about what we also want to do and get done.
I know it might sound like I'm being dramatic or saying it's all so difficult, it's really not that. I know and praise many single parents who still get it done solo and get it done well. I know and deeply appreciate that while other parents manage with one or the other away at work half the time, we both get to be home and spend time as a family. I'm not complaining how we got it at all, at all. I know this is one of our greatest blessings and that's why I'm so passionate about helping more people get online.
I'm just humbled. It's a wild, amazing and always challenging journey ๐ Getting out of our own ego and being in constant service to this impatient and bossy little love of our life. We do our best to be present to the endless opportunities there are to show up for our child. This magnified by consistently wanting to do our best for Kai is an intense balancing game and we are learning a lot about ourselves everyday.
Mostly this week we've been spending time climbing and hanging out with friends here in Chiang Mai. Here's the link for Aum Vegan restaurant, it's like our second home and we love Gasorn and her family. There's been lots of discussion about where everyone is going for burning season. All of which don't help us make any definite decision on where we will go.. the clock is ticking lol! ๐ค
One of the other things I didn't get to this week was that I wanted to speak on witnesses and introduce you to a few projects I learned about that are really making a positive difference to our Steemiverse ๐ซ So instead of waffling on bout it I asked @teamsteem if he mind me sharing this interview done recently with @jerrybanfield.
I support both these dudes with witness votes and I really enjoyed this talk, I feel you will too. It's a great chance to get to know them both a lil better and if you still don't know a thing about witnesses then I recommend listening to what they up to on the chain! ๐ ๐ฏ
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We've been seeing a lot of action in the group and behind the scenes this week. So thankful for everyone who is contributing to the daily discussions and getting involved in solutions and strategies! Special shout out to @sourceoftruth for encouraging me to stream more live conversations and tutorials with the SMG family.
Here's a provocative post I saw this morning by @lydiaravenswood, one of our newest members talking about circumcision ๐ฅ I guess I was feeling some kind of way today, however it really got a response out of me..
How do you feel about...the penis? by @lydiaravenswood
I'm interested to see if more people will contribute to this conversation. I know it's a bit edgy for some people and is loaded with emotional attachment from all sides. However it really is an important reflection that I feel all too often is simply accepted as normal, ascetics or even religious.. ๐ฃ wtf?
I know this post is really getting long now, however I just wanted to fit this one more in. It's a post by @artemislives about her weekend in the rural mountains outside Chiang Mai ๐ I won't butcher her amazing story telling skills, however it's a really good read. I invite you to go on this little adventure with her and her daughter, I promise you it is a eye opening and thought provoking story.
Definitely I came away a wider world view!
I heard myself defending the bride.. by @artemislives
There are tons of great writers joining the mastermind recently and if you are interested in meeting more like minded Steem folk who are passionate about supporting each other on this platform then come say hello. We are a close nit family and real eyes the power of community. We grow stronger together ๐ and to me that is what this place is all about.
Remember, we have the chance to build a new economy here, so please do not be cynical with your posts or comments. Cynicism is a form of condescension and posting garbage reflects a belief that this community has no value, and unconsciously that you yourself have no value! - How to create a successful introduceyourself by @benleemusic
Thanks ๐๐ป for the top comments and votes on my last post. Please check these generous hearts, we all share STEEM love in our own ways: @flauwy @karinxxl @eftnow @sourceoftruth @amico @artemislives @livemylife @iliasdiamantis @flipstar @alexpmorris @yaanivapeji @cabernet @samstonehill @clayboyn
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That's all from me today, thanks for sharing your valuable time currency. Drop a comment if you vibe with these conversations and thanks to Steemit for rewarding our content creators. Shout out to YouTube for hosting and enabling the embeds of our archives. Please subscribe for more live streams on Twitch! ๐
As soon as @dtube and @dlive are fully synced with the features we'd prefer to use, we'll be happily transitioning to our extended dapp family. I know we are the future and it's my intention to keep bringing new eyes to our blockchain while continuing to share our STEEM stories with the world!
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As always, another great post filled with useful information & insights. Awesome to learn more about "witnesses" and other tools to enhance our Steem journeys. I can feel the momentum that WE are all generating. The more WE engage, connect, and support each other, the more WE are engaged and supported. THIS is how we roll in the "new" world of community. :)
Thanks man, just out here doing my best. Sharing what works, attracting more of what we want and well.. dealing with all the misalignment's we attract along the way I guess. It's all happening on purpose and I'm humbled and thankful for that! Oh yes the SMG snowball is well on it's way brother.. more jump on daily only increase the momentum! Let's do this! ๐
Keni, since you're obviously still monitoring this thread (and upvoting folks who are blindly supporting your rhetoric [without knowing any of the context]), how about addressing the allegations head on in a fair and productive way? How about deleting the comment where you slandered and doxxed me with cherry picked and irrelevant data. Again, why would such an enlightened fellow resort to grandstanding and doxxing someone? Why not just be honest about what happened and work towards making things right. You already admitted (below) to just walking away with my money because you "decided" that that was the right thing to do, even though the contract was clearly broken and... what exactly gives you the right to make such a determination regarding someone else's money? Do you regularly just take things when you "decide" it's fair that you do? No, contracts are contracts and you and your partner are in clear violation of this one. You don't get to just "decide" that it's okay to break a contract and walk away with the money. That's not how the world works and it's beyond unethical, it's abhorrent. So again, how about you stop ignoring this issue (which is not going away, I assure you) and we work this out like adults over the internet.. Or I can come to Chiang Mai and we can work it out there if you prefer. Up to you.
Evidence of abhorrent behavior:
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Again, go ahead and cherry pick pieces of the conversation all you want and continue to dox me. Voiding a contract and walking away with someone's money is abhorrent... in fact, it's also illegal. You've already admitted to doing this so you really have no defense. Send my money back and we can both move on, it's as straightforward as that. You don't get to modify contractual terms to fit your agenda (which is to walk off with people's money). The money doesn't belong to you or your partner. It's my money. You're a scammer, through and through. AND, not only that, you also don't even have the decency to discuss this privately, instead you want to grandstand to your followers and slander me (not to mention the doxxing...). You blocked and ignored every attempt I've made to engage in this conversation privately. You're not entitled to someone's money just because you decide they're rude or whatever. Sorry about the language, truly - remember I already apologized several times. Legitimately, I wish nothing bad for you or your family. I was in the throes of a personal crisis at the time and I meant no offense. I really can't understand how you can preach all the bullshit you preach and then do something like walk away with someone's money. Which is it, are you enlightened or are you a thief? You can't be both.
I made no claims to be either. It's not possible to share the entire email conversation with a few screen grabs.
What is this "contract" you feel has been voided and where is your evidence? You quite clearly are not willing to communicate "decently", openly or factually.
My partner fulfilled her agreed skype meeting with you and responsibly refused to book anything more with you. No matter how much you tried to buy her attention.
So what then is your purpose of continuing? To further incriminate yourself and make false accusations against someone you don't know.
I will continue to communicate with you through this page only, where all is saved on the blockchain for future reference. Please do yourself a favor and don't spam other users, they may start flagging you.
Let's keep to facts.
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"I will continue to communicate with you through this page only, where all is saved on the blockchain for future reference. Please do yourself a favor and don't spam other users, they may start flagging you."
Where's the communication??
Where is your evidence Julian @kenistylesconman?
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RESPONSE DATED WED 03/21/2018: @kenistylesconman aka JULIAN ROSS, as you know I am willing to respond to you in this thread and this thread only. There is no need to continue asking for attention elsewhere, I am available right here. This is for the benefit of both of us and to present all of the evidence about your complaint for the examination of my readers as well as any of your supposed legal representative.
I am glad that we are finally agreed that this is an entirely pointless endeavor on your part, there is nothing to gain from your continued smear against me. Since you continue to spread false accusations and lies about me across this platform, I have done my best to provide duplicate samples of your abuse here in the relevant thread.
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There is nothing we are attempting to get away with and no difficulty on our part, you are simply incriminating yourself further and publishing slanderous defamation. This spam is insulting, abusive and clearly hate speech all of which provides evidence of your continued online harassment spanning the past 2 years.
We are now far beyond any negotiations and have stated multiple times that while you are free to express yourself and pursue whatever course of action you decide. We will not be sending you any money and have no legal, ethical or moral obligation to do so. All actions proven by this thread and the attached evidence substantiates this.
Finally for the record, we do not wish any ill intent towards you, we recognize your regret and underlying mental and emotional state. We only wish you the best in finding a medicine that works to heal whatever pain you are projecting and once again implore that you quit this smear of my reputation for your own betterment and happiness in life.
Sincerely.
Ps. While these comments were completely unnecessary, we empathize for you. You must have be severely abused to see the world this way. All the best, may you receive all the help you need in healing your issues.
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Keni, there's no empathy needed. This is not an emotional plea of any sort, simply an attempt to resolve a clear breach of contract honestly and fairly without the need of a 3rd party. All you've done in return is slander and doxx me, which I couldn't really care less about tbh. I've attempted many times to communicate privately and you've only blocked and remained unresponsive. You've cherry picked an interesting variety of quotes above that don't really show any sort of context and the last one was a joke made to a comment you made about not letting go of people when hugging them, but of course you didn't show the preceding comment.
Anyhow, it's clear that you're only interested in grandstanding on your rather bleak steemit page and not in proving how you're apparently the rightful owner of someone else's money, a task you've failed across about 50 comments at this point. I suppose it's time to just move towards legal proceedings, as this is obviously the only way to resolve this dispute.
Excuse me for not finding your "rape" and "pedophile" humor amusing, goes to show how questionable your character and mental state is. In my opinion it is completely disgusting, disturbing and not at all welcome in any correspondence with me thanks very much.
You certainly seem very emotional, going to great lengths to invade my daily discussion threads that have nothing to do with you. Yet again very unwelcome and abusive behavior, especially when you know I have been absolutely responsive to you here and you are able to reach me directly at any time.
Once again the situation is completely resolved from our perspective and we will gladly have no further correspondence with you. There is no dispute and no need for any 3rd party involvement on our part. May you wish to pursue that yourself it is entirely your prerogative and you are welcome to direct your brief to this thread for all my statements and evidence regarding the matter. Be prepared for a full and complete rebuttal, counter claim and retaliatory claim of slander, defamation, online abuse and harassment.
This thread shows complete context in fact and the only thing missing is the sheer amount of harassment and spam to the tune of, as you stated 50 libelous statements. You published these in various other threads in many other authors articles. All of which have zero relevance to you or your claims against me.
Also we have nothing to prove, the burden of proof is on you. I have in fact gone above and beyond to address the situation and you have done nothing to substantiate any of your claims. No evidence at all of me so called scamming, stealing or breaching any possible resemblance of contractual agreement with you. Yet you continually slander and defame me which is solid evidence for a case against you.
You clearly do not see how you are digging a bigger hole for yourself and these futile attempts to antagonize me are going nowhere. It certainly is time for you to just move on. That is in my opinion the only positive outcome for you from this campaign.
Otherwise I am beyond complete with this chit-chat and look forward to hearing from your legal representative on this non-existent case.
Good day.
More along the lines of a sad-but-likely-true kind of joke. The way you exploit your son for personal gain, especially in posts relating to pornography is extremely disturbing and the fact that you don't let go of people when you hug them suggests control issues symptomatic of a rapist. Either way, it was a one-off and the intended audience wasn't yourself anyhow, so I'm not surprised you didn't laugh.
Actually you haven't been all that responsive. How about responding to emails or Twitter DMs? Maybe I wouldn't have had to sign up for this dumb 'platform' if you had responded to the private correspondence. Instead you wanted to evade responsibility, which also isn't all that surprising. Why this conversation has to occur over steemit is beyond me but this is seemingly the only way to get you to respond (is to discuss publicly).
That's fine. You talk of slander quite a bit but don't seem to have a claim against me. If you do, then file it. I've said nothing fallacious and you don't have an actual public reputation, just a small cohort of followers on steemit or twitter. So your claims are baseless but if you've got a case then bring it.
You're right, there's not much to prove given that you've already agreed that the scenario is as I stated it. You and your partner decided that you were entitled to my money and walked away with it, regardless of the agreement put forth. You have not disputed that and there is no additional "burden of proof" that need be satisfied. We agree and are both in possession of the same thread of correspondence.
Okay, let's go with the latter.
Dear @kenistylesconman - Hey there! I'm new to Steemit and I don't know you nor do I really know @kenistyles. So far he's been a cool guy who upvotes a few comments of mine from time to time. That being said, I'm not aware of (nor care) about the dispute between the two of you. But it appears you've created your account just to downvote @kenistyles upvotes. Now, the problem that I have with that is that I'm new, and your downvotes on my profile- however aimed at him, affect my reputation. Flag wars are a bit of an abuse of the system. We have enough of that here.
So I'm going to ask you quite civilly to please stop downvoting his votes and comments on other people's pages. There's lots of room for both of you to upvote/downvote war each other on your own pages where your own account and reputation is at stake. You are literally harming the accounts of dozens of innocent people and robbing them. UPVOTES come from the REWARD POOL, not his WALLET. You are not damaging his wallet by damaging our pages, only hurting US and not him at all.
It's not our fault what happenned between you two. Please comply with fixing your issue another way.
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Thank you @KeniStyles for the promotion of my thread!
You're welcome, I feel circumcision is a really important topic, especially for future parents and thanks very much for the support below. It's taken me a couple days to come full circle and see this as a positive lesson. I'm gonna write about that in my next post and I'm limiting my responses to this page from now on since he's attempting to smear us all over the place.
There's no point dragging his drama all over the place, that's his intention after all. He's also ignored my invitation to provide any evidence, substance or context to his claims. Instead he has done nothing but further defame and slander us with his libel. He is desperate for attention and and we clearly do not see his situation the same way.
I'll keep all my comments to his thread when presenting our case. It makes it easier for us to respond to his future posts with a link back here. More to the benefit of other readers, the facts for all to make their own minds up.
Thank you! ๐๐ป
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Thanks big man! ๐
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Thank You for your wonderful post. It always does us much good, when we take time to be grateful & appreciative of what we are experiencing in our lives, whether it's positive, or otherwise. In every experience, there is room for Gratitude & Appreciation to lift our energy vibration frequency.
Thank You also Keni for your wonderful Steemit Mastermind Group. I'm pleased to be part of the Community :)
Dude I hear ya when you are talking about how parents do it with time management with their kids. Im not a parent myself but the thought of work fulltime, housework and being a cool parent all by yourself would feel dramatic to me.
I dont know how people do this, yet in the caribbean here there are so many parents who pull it off by themselves. Amazing!
Have a blessed weekend dude!
@karinxxl, thanks for the comment and reflection. Parenting is the best drama we have ever been blessed to experience! If anything, I am reminded daily how much I respect all parents, single or not, hardworking and home-making for honoring their duty to their children. Our collective future literally depends on our unconditional love and support.
Will do my best to be in joy this weekend, sending positive vibes out to you too! ๐๐ป ๐ฏ
"Telling our best feeling story"... LOVE that as a thematic anchor as I set my intention for a new day tomorrow. Thank you for the curation and resteeming love, Keni. Always find new and great content to support and enjoy though your posts. And your little guy is sooooo adorable!! Thank you for radiating a different way of non-judgement, inclusion and collaboration.
We be it as we see it love, no light without dark. Thank you for everything you are sharing here, I'm so thankful to know you and be getting to know you more every day. Truly we are blessed to feel your positive intentions singing through our mastermind with your daily expressions ๐๐ป
Yea time just flies these days, though we cant stop it but atleast we can manage a little time fir our dear ones who deserve it, who are always waiting for us, who wanna smile with us..Its ultimately satisfaction that our soul actually languishes for
Hello Taasi, from here my truth is that we can slow the illusion of time whenever we want. We can be here now, for a moment or more. Sure and then we jump back in the game and that memory almost disappears, instantly we are catching up to ourselves again? Haha how long are we willing to be here, how easily are we drawn back in the flow?
For sure I feel you though, I agree we're all practicing time management. I know for me our dearest soul satisfaction is ever timeless, this life stuff happening outside of it is our chance to capture moments and thankfully we have a blockchain to re-mind us what we've been up to! ๐
Yes amazingly put down... Your words just made me numb :)