Freewrite Day 531 Filth

I would rather move than clean. I tell people this and they don’t believe me. But it’s true. The word “nomad” is in my profile because I am one. Cleaning is not high on my priorities.

Most of the time I try to pay people to clean for me wherever I stay. Right now I cannot afford this, so things degenerate.

I try not to live in filth. I keep clean eating and cooking areas, and I do dishes. But anything that does not effect my health can stay dirty or messy and I don’t care.

This comes up in my chronic pain groups. People mourn the fact that they can no longer clean and that their house is not spotless like they wish it was. I tell them to get a cleaning lady and they are horrified by the idea.

Who made these (mostly) women think they are the only ones who can clean? I’m always amazed. Once in a while some one breaks down and hires help and then comes back to the group filled with joy. Then 20 people chime in to say they could never do that.

I feel lucky that I have never cleaned in my life and don’t care too much. The stress of this is overwhelming for so many.

My mother was a stay at home mom and a clean freak. Even though she cleaned herself, she always had help. At minimum someone would come a couple times a month and do the “heavy” cleaning. My poor chronic pain friends think they should be able to do this.

I tell them, “You cannot open a jar without pain. Why do you think you need to vacumm and then go to bed for two days.”

Sometimes my words help. Most times they don’t.

My post is for the #freewrite daily challenge by @mariannewest. Freewrite is a great way to post on steemit when you do not think you have the time, or talent, or anything to say. It’s a great way to start regular posting on steemit. I know you can do this too! Here is Marianne’s freewrite prompt post for today. Give it a try and surprise yourself.

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Minnow tips!

Here is my latest minnow tips post if you struggle here at steem.

These tips can help you even if you are not new.
Monday Minnow Tips for Everyone from @fitinfun

Contents of the Above Post

What should I do EACH DAY on STEEM with low power?

What to do with your STEEM

Are you shooting blanks with your votes?

Should you use an autovoter?

Join qurator

Do not post to nowhere

Why bother to comment?

How and Why to use kryptonia

How to get Upvotes

For Twitter Users

How and Why to lease delegated sp

Curation Trails

Using Discord

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dApp Reviews

All recommended!
ginabot
esteem
Share2Steem with Twitter Tips

Tasteem Restaurant Reviews dApp before I used it
Tasteem Restaurant Reviews dApp with tips to do better

And here is an update on @fitinfunfood. I just started this blog in Jan 2019, so you can find out what I am doing to grow my new baby here:
fitinfunfood Update Post

I am updating my minnow tips these days:

https://steemit.com/busy/@fitinfun/make-money-on-steem-part-1

More about using SBI:

https://steemit.com/esteem/@fitinfun/my-steembasicincome-update-spoiler-i-love-sbi

Great post from @brittandjosie, with all kinds of help for new people. Definitely worth clicking every link!

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