Things To Note: For Her X, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3, part 4, part 5, part 6, part 7, part 8 and part 9.
Your desire to seek peace should override your desire to be right at all times. We win in marriage or a relationship through subjection to one another and also through due considerations. We should never forget that who we date or choose to marry will always be our responsibility. The moment you have decided to date him, he is your responsibility. You should seek for ways to improve him, pamper him, correct him and be proud of him, as he should too. Loyalty is only made possible when you realize the fact that your partner is your responsibility and you stick together through ever moment, I mean every moment. There is no “I” in marriage or a relationship. There is no room for selfishness and greed. You don’t just fend for yourself but you must care for your partner as well. It has to be mutual and until you both get to this point, you might get a little bit frustrated.
Taking responsibility is vital in a relationship. Ladies, you should also note that, because a man is good to your parents doesn’t mean he will be a wonderful husband to you, and this is why you need to be careful about who you decide to settle down with. Study his content before feeding your soul. Time is a true test for everything. It doesn’t mean you have to date him for long before you know certain things but I am telling you to be careful, be sensitive and look out for the warning signs. Tell him to work on the things you are not comfortable with and watch if he is the type who seeks to improve and also make you happy. When a guy desire to make you happy, he would go through any length, but never let him lose himself while trying to please you, be considerate and only let him work on the excesses and the ‘not so proud’ habits. Who to marry is one of the most important decisions of your life, so you have to do it right. It is your life on the line, never bulge to undue pressure. It is really up to you.
You can fool all the people some of the time, you can fool some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time. If for anything, if you must fool everyone, don’t fool yourself.
In life, it is okay to kiss a fool, it is okay to let a fool kiss you, but do not let a kiss fool you.
…to be continued…
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I really like the last part of this post;
In life, it is okay to kiss a fool, it is okay to let a fool kiss you, but do not let a kiss fool you.
However, I love this Keywords; SUBJECTION and CONSIDERATION.
I also love the part that stresses making your partner your responsibility but ofcourse we shouldn't loose ourselves in the process.
There is more to relationship than meets the eye, so dealing with individual contents is without fail of utmost significance.
Thanks for sharing boss.
Always with a brilliant contribution. I am glad you could find some things to learn from this. Thanks a lot as always. Gracias brother.
So much and more to learn sir.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks for your consistency.
One important thing for "Her" ...men many a times attracted because of the physical appearnce. Before you decide to date do check on the loyality faithfulness. As @olawalium mention being gentlemen to your parents doesnot gurantee he is perfect. Even if you see the truthfulness on his character it will be your responsibility in the relationshipt to make him perfect
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I love that; it will be her responsibility in a relationship to make it perfect, when she choose to go ahead and date him. Responsibility is vital there.
Exactly bro....try is better than letting it go
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Yes choose your partner wisely.