You will meet your own kind

It doesn't matter who you are; it is more important who are you with.

The eagle grows up in the chicken coop will lose the ability to fly.

Even if you are outstanding, because of the negative people around you, will affect you and make you stress.

If you want to soar in the sky like an eagle, you need to fly with the eagles, and if you are smart, you'll be smarter if you with a smart person, and if you want to success, then you'll need to with successful person, provided you will work hard.

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Life is a process of choice, the most important choice in life is to choose who you want to be together. Who to work with, who you choose to make friends with, who you choose to marry with, who you choose to learn from ... Who you are with, will determine your future. It is up to you to decide who you want to be with.

Yesterday, I talked to my friend. He said his wife always dislike him, complained that other’s husband is better than him. He felt that he did not do well enough to reach his wife's expectation, and cause his wife to be unhappy; they are giving each other the silent treatment.

He is a soldier and went to the army after graduating from college. Two years ago, he met a girl who was one year younger than him.

After a few days they met, He was moved by what the girl said:”I do not mind that you are a soldier, not able to accompany me around." For a soldier, what the girl said is particularly weighty, because there are understanding and tolerance. When the girl proposed marriage, he did not think much and accepted.

After the wedding, he hurried back to the army, and the girl rented a house to work alone.

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During this period, because there is no relationship basis and separation between the two, less time seeing each other, lack of communication, there have been many contradictions and quarrels. For example, the girl complained that she wanted to buy a house.

Knowing that her husband had little savings, she forces the husband to borrow money to buy a house. He did not want to ask his parents for money, not to mention borrowing money from relatives. He thought it was a disguised way for his parents to die, and he would never do that.

So, because of the idea of buying a house, a knot is formed in their heart. The girl thinks he is incompetent and can't do anything well.

Later, with the accumulation of a lot of small things, the girl's grievances and heart knot gradually piled into a hill, the girl from disappointment to despair and speechless. Although he has been trying to save this relationship, all goods have become pains, the feelings for each other not only didn’t improve but turned into hostile opposition.

Perhaps man is like that, doesn't have much patience, doesn’t care enough, feel that they have tried their best, buy gifts to coax you happy, and you still ungrateful.

Two days ago, his family went to the army to visit him, but his wife didn’t come. He thought the girl still angry, so he didn’t tell her. Later, when the girl found out and got into a fight with him. He was very angry and casually ask for a divorce.

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Quarrel is like a bayonet, you stabbed me once, I stabbed you back, but in the end, both sides will get hurt.

Is divorce a solution? Because they did not reflect on their own problems, even if divorce, also can’t solve the problem.

Choose to get married is your own choice, now complaining that this man is not good enough, not enough money, not intimate, not sweet enough, then why get married in the first place?

If the couple can’t live together for another day, then there must be a variety of problems, but you have to find the cause yourself, not blindly complaining about others.

When you don't have the ability to stay away from this fractured marriage, you can only pick up all your complaints, try to be good, and manage your own marriage.

I have a female friend who I only see once. She is very beautiful, body figure is also very good, and know how to dress herself. I often see her share this on Facebook:
"Why those who is uglier than me already have a boyfriend?"
"Why do I try so hard, but still not good enough?" ”

She is giving hints every day, "I look so beautiful, living a high-quality life, still don’t have a boyfriend, come be my boyfriend!" But if any man has come to offer his attention, she will be ashamed of the man short and poor.

The best love is always equal.

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Some people seem to get people or things effortlessly, in fact, they not only look better than you but also work harder than you.

What kind of person you are, will meet same kind of person as you.

Birds of a feather flock together. You think your husband is incompetent, but you are not excellent. You think your husband earns too little, in fact, you earn less than him.

You always feel that someone else's husband is better because you are not good enough, so you can't meet an outstanding person.

Do you think you can catch a millionaire when you go to a bar or a fancy restaurant? But nowadays, the rich people won’t go to these places; they go to private VIP club!

It seems that excellent people never appear in your social. Even if you meet someone like that on a certain occasion, talk about economics, talk about politics, talk about finance, talk about travel, you listen to them, you will only understand half of them.

So, without a common language and common interest, lack of tacit spiritual understanding, you can’t walk into their side of the world, gradually, you are still a stranger.

Then, you might feel that you are just missing some luck, not able to meet the people who appreciate you, or someone else's vision is not good, not able to recognize your talent from the crowd.

The story of a prince fall in love with Cinderella only exists in fairy tales, so let it stay in the fairy tale, there is no need to move it to real life.

Therefore, ladies and gentlemen, do not expect others to help you, you need to rely on your own efforts, only by helping yourself, you will eventually get help from others and even God’s help.

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