What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is all about taking control of your thoughts. It's aim is to help you to take back control over your mind and in doing this, you’re also going to be taking back control over your emotions and your feelings.
The end result is that you’re going to be able to become completely present in any given moment and completely ‘mindful’, thereby abandoning unhelpful concerns, stressors and emotions.
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How it works
CBT actually starts out using a form of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness meditation means that you are meditating in such a way as to become more aware of your own thoughts and feelings.
In other forms of meditation... such as transcendental meditation, ask the user to try and completely clear their mind, often by focussing on a single point in space, or perhaps a sound or a word (this is called a ‘mantra’ and it is why we imagine Buddhist monks to hum as they meditate!).
The difference with mindfulness is that you aren’t trying to eradicate your thoughts but rather you are trying to simply ‘watch them’ as they float past you. The idea is that you are becoming aware of the kinds of things you normally think but you aren’t engaging with them and you aren’t letting them affect you. The description is often that you should
watch them pass by ‘like clouds in the sky’.
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Do this for a while and then write down the content of some of those thoughts. Look at the things you stress about and worry about on a regular basis and reflect on them in an objective, disconnected, nonjudgmental manner.
Cognitive Restructuring
The CBT professional would next instruct you to begin breaking down and analyze those thoughts. Some of these will be things that you are going to worrying about and stressing about and which are going to stop you from enjoying yourself in the moment.
You’re going to practice dismissing them but to help, you’re also going to disassemble them using restructuring techniques. One example of this is called ‘thought challenging’ which is going to teach you to challenge the validity of your worries or your distractions.
Worrying Thoughts
Let’s say that you’re worried you didn’t send an email at work. Thought challenging is going to help you overcome this. First, you ask yourself if there’s anything you can do about it. If not, then what is the good in worrying? In fact, it is more important that you relax and enjoy yourself so that you can be fresh and well to handle the challenges tomorrow.
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Next, you ask how much it really matters. What is the worst case scenario? Everyone makes mistakes and in all likelihood, your boss isn’t going to be furious... they’ll be understanding.
Retraining Your Mind
Does some small part of you think that you’re going to get fired? Then just remind yourself that this is incredibly hard for any business to do legally and it would be worse for them than it would be for you. And after all, if your workplace would fire you so readily, would you really want to be there anyway?
Are you worried that people will be mad at you? You made a mistake! So what? And since when do you need to be best friends with your work colleagues?
This is the logical and reasonable reaction to this concern and once you can learn to deconstruct your worries this way, it will allow you to simply forget them and go back to enjoying whatever you’re doing or remaining calm when you’re under pressure.
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Wow I have never heard of Cognitive Behavior Therapy. Love learning new tools to enhance my behaviors and reactions. Missed your video this morning.
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Solid post my friend. What I find really interesting about CBT and also REBT (Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy) is that they're both build on the Stoic philosophy (well referenced by its founders). At least in my world coming from a "Stoic background" this gives immense credibility. So in many ways they have taken and built upon the best methods and packaged it in a contemporary manner, fascinating.
Good post as always!
REBT is another solid one. Great education on how we can become our best selves. Thanks for sharing @williamwest!
Excellent job. Working on meditation.
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