Take your time, don't worry, you still have time.
I forgot which philosopher said: "When we are tired of life, life has gone away from us. A hasty life requires a break and a pause." The pause in the speech can draw the mood of the audience and make your speech more brilliant; The pause in the business can give the other side a balance of space, can smoothen the transaction; The pause in the game, can adjust the players coordination, and can even win the game; The pause in the relationship can help both sides reflect on their own, so that you can notice their good.
It can be said that for the time being, a pause is the skill, is the recess, is an appreciation, is for a better forward.
"Fast" is the root of the loss of control. Why the transportation department repeatedly stressed that you not to drive too fast, shouldn’t overtake and skip others line. This is because driving fast is easy to get out of control, and there will be accidents after out of control.
Life is also the same, fast-paced life is easy to get people out of control. Once out of control, you can’t stop even if you want to. It might cause by a threat to health, causes lover's mistakes, wrong decisions, economic losses, and even the loss of happiness.
Ordinary people are always eager to respond to the emotions of the outside world, unable to think rationally, easy to put into action without thinking. To get to the bottom of it, fast is the root cause of runaway.
Franklin's "Time Is life, time is Money", has long become the motto of the great industrial era, has affected the whole world, inspired countless people into a whole society of gears to run unceasingly for your dream.
The slogan of work is increasingly driving people's footsteps. Work, houses, cars become life for most people. For them, fast is good, this is more obvious in sports, many times, the first place is 0.001 seconds faster than the second place, and their life situation will be very different.
Therefore, people always pursue fast. The pursuit of efficiency is not wrong, but they tend to ignore a problem. Blindly pursue fast will make people tend to become like the machine on the assembly line, on track, busy every day.
After the formation of habits, everything is about work, work becomes the whole life, becomes the core of life. When a person becomes a working machine, he is already out of control, he no longer manipulating the work, but manipulated by the work.
Back to the traffic accidents, mostly caused by driving fast. The person in a hurry in life is always the appearance of the desperate, busy earning money, busy with promotion, busy getting married, busy with old age, and also busy running to the many diseases and death, and unable to stop.
In the end, missed the good years, missed the most important people and things in life. When you wake up, life has come to an end and there is no chance to do it again.
In this modern society, everyone is busy, nonstop moving forward. Some want to achieve their own ideals; Some want to give their family a good environment; Some want to give their children a better future. However, people don’t know that such hasty footsteps, is not the best choice in life.
We also need to forge ahead in the process of life to enjoy the joy of the family, like mountaineering, in each attraction at a breath, stop, take a look, appreciate those beautiful sceneries, pleasing to the delight.
Same goes to life, you should spend some time to pay more attention to the people and things around you no matter how busy you are, especially care for your family. Spend more time with your family, talk with them, travel with them and build a harmonious family.
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