People who do not understand life, are not qualified to talk about ideals

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Recently, My cousin told me: "I like to write, my dream is to be a writer, but I am engaged in a job that I do not like, I want to resign for writing, fight for my dreams."

I say: “Sure you can, but before you resign, you have to ask yourself a question: Do you have enough savings to support yourself and your family?”

He turned silent.

Everyone must shoulder our responsibilities, live conscientiously, a dream that doesn’t have financial support is simply vulnerable!

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Wendy has finally decided to divorce.
She did not think that the husband that attracted her because of his love towards art, and now decided to divorce still because of her husband loves towards art.

Her husband, Leonard, was a good artist, he was a high school art teacher. Wendy has always been adoring and worshipping her husband, and very supportive of his passion towards painting.

Her husband painting skill, in the local, it is not a problem to run a primary and secondary art school, with the students, the annual income sure is more than $100,000. But her husband's dream is to be a painter; he is not reconciled to spend his precious time in teaching.

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In an art exhibition, Leonard's painting got appreciation from a qualified painter and said if he brushes up his skill, he will become a famous painter. So he decided to resign and go overseas to study. The whole family strongly opposed, after all, painting is a costly career, and the resignation causes the family income plummeted, unable to support the family and children's expenses.

But Leonard doesn’t listen to any advice and resigned, with $50,000, went overseas to pursue dreams, leaving Wendy and her child. A year later, Leonard's painting career did not seems to improve, the money was spent, and also owed some foreign debt.

Wendy filed for divorce. Someone advised: "You have a child, don’t divorce, endure for a few years, maybe he will succeed." Wendy is very resolute:” A man without a sense of family responsibility, even if he succeeds, he is not a good man and not worthy of love.”

You look beautiful when pursuing your dreams, but don't forget your responsibilities. Only when you know how to live happily, then your dream will shine in front of you.

Jane, as a young girl who just graduated from college, her dream is to own a flower shop, wear beautiful clothes every day, in the aroma of the flowers! Everyone advised her to find a job first, but she had made up her mind. So in her strong request, her parents funded her to open a flower shop.

At first, she wake up naturally every day, dress up go to the shop, take a few selfie and share to her social media and attracted a few envy, a few of her classmate also said, we all working all day, you directly have investment. So envy.

But short-lived, only a few months, the flower shop can’t survive.

First of all, there is no business, there is too many flower shop in the city, others have been doing for many years, they have a solid source of customers, Jane’s shop was small and she has no network.

She also lack of knowledge of flowers and plants, a lot of flowers when first arrive, looks beautiful. But after a few days, the flowers turn yellow, and some even died directly.

Jane had to close down her flower shop and loss around tens thousands.

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If the dream is so easy to achieve, then it is not a dream. Especially those who just out of the school, you should first adapt to the society, learn independence, and then only talk about dreams.

Many people think that the dream must be lofty, pure white and does not contaminate any secular dust, preferably with a romantic wine, can become an immortal pursuit of life. But how can you achieve your dream if you can't guarantee your family's life?

We are not the protagonist who has all the blessing; Eat, drink, ticket, all rely on real money. So before you can achieve your dreams, you have to make money and live.

The existence of dreams sometimes is not just to achieve, but the dream in the distance is to remind us that we can work to become a better person.

The dream is in front, lives at the foot, treasures the present so that you can go further.

When we are busy to live, do not erase the dream of your heart, it is there so that you can be stronger and better. Perhaps now, we do not have the conditions to achieve it, but prepare for it bit by bit, when the opportunity comes, achieving the dream become a logical thing.

In fact, the peak of the dream is not that high, as long as you are willing to be earnest and down-to-earth, it will be in front of you waving at you, and if you plan to reach the sky in a single bound, sorry, you will fail miserably.

Insipid life is not drifting, live your life with a dream, that is your best looks.

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