Life can be better if you stop complaining
There is such a group of people; before they start doing something, they will determine the feasibility based on their individual understanding. When facing difficulty, they give up even before they start. Always complain about life to calm everything.
We often encounter such a person in life, do a hard but thankless job. For example, the manager arranges you to do one thing, there are two types of result: first, if you are willing to do but cannot complete, the manager may not praise you, but will know your good attitude.
The second, when you finish your work with emotion, you will produce negative energy while complaining. This will have a direct impact on the outcome of work progress. The same outcome is to complete the job, the mentality of making the choice is not the same, the result will also be different.
People will grow faster in the more difficult environment. There is always a concept, life is like a cube, if you want to move forward, you will walk very slowly. Bump a lot, if you want to speed up the pace, you have to grind the edges and corners, every time you move you will be injured, but these injuries are paving the way for the next time.
When one day, you grind all the edges and corners into a circle, you will move quickly. If you want to go faster, you need to endure the early grinding edge time, like taking off a layer of skin, as long as you can withstand the test, you will become more and more powerful.
Different working environment will affect a person's work attitude, if there are people that keep on complaining around you, in the beginning, you might ignore him, but after some time, everyone will stay away from him. People who always complain are usually those who always avoid the problem.
I read such a story before: There is a company recruitment supervisor, through interviews, only three people pass. For the last interview, the director of human resources directly asks the three candidates: "If you find your subordinates did something wrong, what will you do?" "
A said: I will certainly give ruthless punishment, I will stand on the company's point of view, for the sake of the interests of the company.
B said: "First of all, I will investigate clearly, usually this problem, are the company's own problems, facilities, and equipment issues, of course, the staff will be punished if is his/her fault."
C said: I will reflect on the seriousness of the problem, why the staff will have such a situation, make up for the mistakes and organize training for the staff.
These few answers to me, I don’t see right or wrong, but the supervisor chooses C. Maybe because this position needs someone who can be independent, moreover as the enterprise's senior management, they want the result, not useless statement.
We can briefly analyze: A and B have in common is their starting point is to complain about the staff is not good, enterprise imperfect. If the enterprise problem, why not to improve? C is not complaining, but seriously treat it and solve the problem.
There are too many things in life is unexpected, we only by having the courage to face life calmly, complaining is not the worst, what’s worse is you denying your ability to solve the problem!
Facing the current unhappy life, I will try to face it, even if I can’t realize my dream now, then start to exercise the ability to endure hardship! At least what I can do is improve myself so that the ability to endure hardship next year, is better than this year.
If you have a choice, choose the best life. If you have no choice, try to make life better. Anyway, if you are working hard, no matter the past or the future, you are working hard! A clear conscience, when you feel that you had the hardship worthy of the life you want to achieve, you are not far from success!
Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://walkinharmony.vornix.blog/2018/08/30/life-can-be-better-if-you-stop-complaining/
Thanks for a great reminder. I never stop complaining about everything. I have my weakness in looking the good and positive side of things, I am only thinking of solutions to problems every second of my life.