Happiness is just a feeling

Happiness is just a feeling, everyone has their own happiness, you can’t feel other people's happiness.

I do not know what makes those rich people happy, I only know the people similar to me.

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My neighbor, Mr. Lee, is 80 years old this year, every day he likes to stroll and chat with the neighbor, has no other hobbies. He smokes a lot of cheap cigarettes, drinks cheap wine, but he is not rich. He spent his whole life farming, without technology and culture. Although his movement is a little bit slow, his is still healthy and relaxed.

Every time I greet him, he responds with delight, and sometimes jokes to others, always cheerful.

Mr. Lee said: "I also have to catch up with the society, it’s time to live for the better."

The implication is obvious, he felt very happy, although his family is not rich.

If want to talk about the rich, there is no doubt that Millionnaire Lai.

He thinks that Mr. Lee is very lazy, everytime he mentioned about Mr. Lee, he said: "He has no culture, no ability, no property for future generations, even his wife also complained about him."

Sometimes, when Millionnaire Lai educates his son, he will use Mr. Lee as the bad example. “What can you do without money? You see that old man, more than 80 years old, did have any new clothes, how pitiful!”

Mr. Lee became a bad example. This is normal, everyone's understanding of happiness is different, the feeling of happiness is also different.

Mr. Lee himself feels very happy, but he is a poor man in the eyes of Millionnaire Lai.

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Of course, Millionaire Lai is not his real name, because many years ago he earned millions, so everyone gave him this nickname. Compared with other villagers, he lives in villas, drives luxury cars, wears famous brands, drinks good wine, smokes well, and marries a good-looking wife.

No matter good or bad things happened, everyone will ask for Millionaire Lai because he knows a lot and has a broader relationship.

This makes Millionaire Lai very happy, he said: "I do not have many skills, live life is also OK."

Although he is not very old, his blood sugar is very high.

I want to know what is happiness for a child, so I asked my nephew from junior high: "Do you think that Millionaire Lai happy?”

"Living in that life considered happy?" said the little fellow with a defiant spirit. The health is the capital of revolution, he is not healthy, what’s the point of having so much money? Walk a few steps started to breathe heavily, is this happiness?”

The child's thought on happiness is purer, doesn’t care much about the money, directly deny Millionaire Lai’s happiness.

Some people think that the wealth is happiness; some people think that having a healthy lifestyle is happiness; some people think that success in career is happiness, and some think that together with family is happiness. In another word, happiness is so varied that it depends on what kind of person you are.

Everyone's pursuit is different, you don’t have care about what others think, the happiness you feel, is the only happiness that matters.

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