Expecting the Expected #6 Help your Spouse.

Hi Steemians,

You are married? Are you aware that you now have a responsibilities? You are no longer single and on your own, someone is waiting for you to come back home.

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Indulging in extra marital life has consequences. Are you prepared to face it? Marrying just one woman carries its heavy weight not to mention two.

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In the period that she carrying your baby, please be at her service all the time because carrying plenty food inside your stomach! You know how it feels not to mention a baby.

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In my previous series, I wrote extensively about the need to love your wife. Read the story here:

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https://steemit.com/life/@stevenmosoes/expecting-the-expected-5-love-your-wife

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During that period of 9 month. Let her feel comfortable to tell you anything, ensure she goes to her clinic appointment right on time, bath her if possible, shave her (important), gentle touch on the stomach to feel the baby's warmth and speak to the baby, pray for her and the baby, help her with shores if possible, and cook sometimes.

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Recently, I made eba and obe ila soup for her and here is how I did it:

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Ingredient:

• Gari also known as Cassava flakes.
• Okro.
• Ata Rodo which is Pepper.
• Pomo.
• Eja gbigbe which dry fish.
• Red Oil.
• Maggi
• Salt
• Fresh fish which is Titus Fish.
• Assorted meats.

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Method:

• Cook the meat with curry and thyme.

• Do the same above with fresh fish

• Shop your pomo.

• Grind your pepper not too smooth though.

• You must pieces the dry fish, add into boil water for a few minutes and watch it out.

• Take little from the water of meat and fish, mix it with pepper, pomo and the dry fish and boil for 3 minutes.

• Add the shopped okro.

• Add red oil as you pleases and boil for 2 minutes.

• Add all others ingredients you have and cook for 5 more minutes.

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For the Eba.

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Method:

• Boil water till boiling point.

• Add the water boiled water into a small bowl.

• Add Gari till solid.

• Stir it well together.

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Serve it with the okro soup.

Enjoy.

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Previous series are: Series 1: https://steemit.com/life/@stevenmosoes/expecting-the-expected-1

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Series 2: https://steemit.com/life/@stevenmosoes/expecting-the-expected-2-personal-life-notice

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Series 3: https://steemit.com/life/@stevenmosoes/expecting-the-expected-3-to-my-unborn-child

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Series 4: https://steemit.com/life/@stevenmosoes/expecting-the-expected-4-the-beginning

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Series 5: https://steemit.com/life/@stevenmosoes/expecting-the-expected-5-love-your-wife

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