Expecting the Expected #1
Hello steemians,
This series is about the story of my life and my marriage which I have found myself.
I got married to the love of my life which I have grown fund of. She is my wife, my own, my beauty, my spouse, the cockroach in my cupboard, the sugar in my tea, my heart, my soul mate, my inspiration, etc.
I got married precisely June, 2016 and at that time I was excited and optimistic about everything not knowing the challenges I might face in the journey of marriage.
Marriage is sweet but can be bitter if money does not flow into the husband pocket, the household will be full of aggression and peace will come and go.
I am writing this not to bring myself down but as an experience for you out there. Clearly, I never prepared enough for this marriage which has brought me to this stage.
Stage 1: I am hardworking, a photographer, an I. T Support, a digital marketer in learning stage, a good blogger and in the past I had a site called flamingsport.com which I could not continue as a result of funds. The site expired and there is no fund to renew it.
Stage 2: I got married in June 2016 as mentioned above and in September that same year I lost my salary job to Nigerian economic (Change). The company website is enablesolutions.net was trying to cut down and I was affected and was sacked.
Stage 3: My wife is now pregnant with about a month to deliver the baby [ First week in November as the scan says]. We have no clue how, when and where to get the money for the baby things because jobs, are not forth coming for me and my wife.
I want to become a good father to my kids, a father who is passionate, caring, loving, alerted and excellent father.
I write this story to say, you want to go into marriage, prepare well for the challenges like have strings of income, conducive environment to accommodate your family, and seek advice from the experienced.
Please help a bleeding man in need of help from all of you readers.
The only thing I want from my readers is to upvote, comment (advice) and resteem for all to read thereby making more dollars and steem for me to take care of my beloved family.
I am grateful.
Thank you all.
I wish you, your wife and your upcoming baby all the best.
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Shez so pretty
Thanks dear.
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PS: Did you already chose a name for the kid? You could name it after me. I'd give you 10 SBD for that;-)