Why No One Loves You (Hint: It's Your Fault)
What's up gang?
Redbeardguy is moody and philosophical again. Apparently he also likes to talk in third person, like a mad dictator.
So, what's your deal? Why no one loves you or cares about you? Are you ugly? Are you a piece of shit? Well, you should know that the only person in the world who has the abillity to love you the way you want to be loved is your mother.
You Are Not A High-School Girl Anymore
In your mind you have this idealized version of love, that it doesn't really exist in the real world (thank God!). You think you are an emo teenager, writing poems about his crush. No. You are an adult.
Your idea of love is a perfect fantasy. So everything that diverges from the your expectations feels like a disaster, a failure.
You have consumed so many chick flicks and romantic comedies, reality seems blunt and banal. I've said this many times, but the equivelant of porn for women is romantic films. Do you remember 50 Shades of Grey? The alpha man, obsessing over the girl next door and sacrificing everything for her. Yeah, totally NOT fake.
You are not living in a fairy tale. Relationships are hard and brutal. You will cheat, get cheated, fight, get bored and hate each other. You're living in your fucking mind!
Stop Being A Cynical Motherfucker, Redbeardguy
"Where are the romantic souls of this world?" Probably at home, jerking off, because no one wants to fuck them.
Let's be pragmatic here. You are just an average guy or girl. You want to believe in a dream, you want to have hope that something extraordinary will happen in your life. But you're fucking yourself over. You need to accept that your idea of love isn't realistic and it's outright immature.
Why no one loves you? Because your perception of love is blurry and outright wrong. You were brainwashed into believing that "there's someone special out there for you" and that relationships are perfect and don't require work.
You can barely love yourself unconditionally and you expect other people to do so?
Bonnie And Clyde
Do you know what I am talking about? The kind of relationships that most people crave is the "us againist the world". You know it.
But like everything else in this pathos driven society, the Shadow of that powerful bond emerges. Everyone is jealous of the Joker-Quinn relationship. The coodpendent, sick, enabling relationship, where you abuse each other, in order to feel something other than boredom and dread.
Do I have any piece of advice? Not really. I am not a marriage counselor nor a lifestyle coach. Just suck it up, find yourself a man or a woman or both, have a buttload of sex, go on adventures, scratch each other and let it be. But for fuck's sake, I am just a guy on the internwebz, writing posts on a cryptocurrency platform. Don't listen to me.
-Your Steemit Bully, Thatredbeardguy
P.S- I fucking hate this fucking post. I wrote it yesterday, but the draft was deleted, so I had to re-do it and while it's better than yesterday, I don't know, I hate it. Fuck. Read the rest of my stuff. They are so good, you'll feel like a dumb rock:
How to make people feel like shit
Am I a sex addcit
Working Hard Vs Doing Hard Work
Hey dude
I can see why you'd hate this post, having written it, but I assure you: the rest of us do not feel that way.
This, and your other posts are really powerful and motivating. I'm sad to see theyre not getting as much exposure.
My advice to you (and I'm not a pro at this):
Watch some videos/tutorials on how to organize your posts on steemit for maximum views and upvotes, and use the proper tags. You shouldnt tag yourself, since you only get 5.
I hope you get a lot more views and upvotes for your ideas and the time you took to help people!
Hey, cossac I appreciate your comment.
Honestly, there isn't much I can do in terms of getting exposure, unless I decide to drop couple hundrend $$ to votebots, which doesn't make sesne to me, since I could spend the same money to drive traffic to an AM site etc.
I think I will write a post on that tomorrow. Cheers!