How To Make Other People Feel Like Shit - And Make Them Attracted To You

in #life6 years ago (edited)

What's up gang?

I know, weird title. It's not a clickbait though. I will give you a secret from the dark arts of manipulation. Forget the autistic Robert Green and his 48 Laws. I will give you something so powerful, it will turn your soul. Read with caution.

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It's Not What You Think. It's Even Simpler Than That

The typical argument between two people consists of either opposing views or one of them criticizing the other for a mistake. Typical stuff.

It's healthy to have heated discussion and discourse. It's the way people reconcile antitheses and move forward.

It becomes sinister and dark when you seek out to make the other person obsessed and attached with you. How do you do that?

First and foremost, I should warn you about this again. It's not healthy, it's not normal, it's psychotic and outright immoral from every perspective. I bet most of you are giggling like school girls because you're about to find a "secret" to make people like you. Well, don't.

That's another point I wanted to make. Most of you already know this. At least on some level, you are aware of what I am talking about. But you don't use it</b. Because it's mean. So mean. Although it's effective, you can feel that it's for the psychopaths.

What the fuck is it Redbeardguy? Spit it out pussy.

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Don't Judge People For Their Mistakes, But Punish Them For Their Effort And Positive Behaviour

People who make mistakes, expect to get punsihed one way or another. So it's not really a big deal. It doesn't hurt their ego, as they understand the reason. It's expected. It doesn't diverge from the standard human behaviour.

But oh boy, when you give them shit for the things they perceive as good and beneficial, you're basically saying they are worthless idiots on a fundamental level. There's no room for improvement, no potential and that reall kills the human spirit.

Now what? You'd think that a person has enough confidence to say "fuck you" and leave. Sure, if he/she is a stranger. But we are talking about a person that has invested in you. He/she bought some of the coins you offer. Leaving would be a loss. Sunk cost fallacy.

So they stick around. They experience minor Stockholm Syndrome, for lack of better words. You stole their ego and they have nothing to fight you. Their reference point for validation is you now and they desperately need you. They really hate you, but that means if they hate you they'd hate themselves for staying with you, instead they start loving you deeply, in a sick, dependent way.

With a social dynamic like this, there's divergence from the expected behaviour and that creates an increase in ALL the negative emotions people feel. That makes him/her even MORE attached to you, in order to "fix" you and consequently make you fix the abnormality you created.

I wrote an example, but I deleted it immediately. Why am I pubishing this post again? I am a shitty person that's why. It's not like you can identify this behaviour in your partner and immediately gtfo, right? Riiight...

Toxic relationships are built on that behaviour. These relationships are rotten to the core. Most of you don't understand what I am saying and I am glad, because this means you haven't experienced that kind of relationship.

Did I trick you to read about relationships with a narcissist? Perhaps...

-Thatredbeardguy

P.S- What bout you? You treat your woman right or you fuck up? Speak up or I will bring the squad by your mother's house and throw chicken legs at your front porch


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You have a minor misspelling in the following sentence:

The typical arguement between two people consists of either opposing views or one of them criticizing the other for a mistake.
It should be argument instead of arguement.

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