DAILY DIGITAL DETOX: A Steemit Community Life Series & Reminder | E.22 - Intentionally / Regularly Unplugging + My Quick Engagement Poll To You!

in #life7 years ago (edited)

I have taken this subject pretty seriously over the years. You need time offline.

Regularly & Intentionally. For lots of reasons.


THE DIGITAL DETOX SERIES OBJECTIVE SERIES CONSTANTS:


My plan with this series is to intentionally remind you, daily to get offline, give your brain, eyes, soul a break and time to reset and remind you that relationships with people can suffer if you are always on your phone and not PRESENT -- in every sense of the word.

The irony of bringing this series to you online, asking you to get offline, on an online blogging platform, is not lost on me.



There have been limited studies done on some of the effects of this digital hold on our lives and they are concerning to say the least. Social media use appears to encourage some of the following negative effects, some of which we hear about regularly now:

-- Narcissism

-- Screen time/white light/activity appears to be causing insomnia/broken sleep cycles (circadian rhythm)

-- Detached reality making our society and kids less empathetic and in touch with reality

Results from the few studies that have been done are troubling. Social media appears to promote narcissism, smartphones could be causing insomnia, and screens seem to be making our kids less empathetic.

Earlier posts in this series covered that in more detail.



TODAY'S DIGITAL DETOX TIDBIT:


Tell people in your life what you're doing.

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"The more people you tell about your detox, the more people will be watching you - and the less you will want to fail," one Dr. says explains.

"Setting an example to friends or family is a great way to motivate yourself. Try leaving phones on silent or switched off during meal times - something which is particularly important for children and young people who learn behaviour from their parents."

It builds in a measure of accountability for you - said another way, which is helpful if you struggle with your devices in your face all the time.

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Find a Digital Detox buddy as was mentioned earlier to do these things with, it helps to have support in place for little things like this.

Support and accountability again.



I've blogged here and in the past about this, but new people are finding the posts, or searching online, so I am saying this again today because it is VERY very important:

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Keep tech/devices out of your bedroom and your kids rooms:

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A constant tip is change 1 habit at a time, so I will keep this in the series.

Reminder: (see past posts) -- Try to use proper, healthy posture techniques always and be purposeful about this.



http://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/posture-for-a-healthy-back

Stick with it and make notes daily about how you feel doing this! Share thoughts with a friend or 2!

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I don't embed my sources like "professional bloggers" -- 9/10 times -- people don't click the sources anyways, let alone hover the cursor to even check quickly, and this way, they can SEE the sources / url's -- that's what I prefer myself anyways, so if i get flagged, I get flagged, I am trying to appeal to the masses here.

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It is more than just unplugging intentionally as I call it -- it is a return to some societal values that we have abandoned in favour of having all the access to data and online resources we have -- a shift is required. However:

Intentional Unplugging as I call it -- is a huge and necessary step.


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As a reminder of what we see daily in the PHYSICAL realm of problems, here is a graphic showing the damage of the neck and spine as it relates to pounds of pressure looking downwards all the time:

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(Sorry this is grainy but I enlarged this 2x, so you could see it better. This is right from the Ontario Chiropractic Association (hard to read but that is the source) -- and I wanted this unedited, it was a jpeg and resizing those means less quality)


My Community Engagement questions to you, today, if you have read this far are simple and will evolve over time:

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  • Did you INTENTIONALLY "unplug" or stay offline this week? How many times? Give yourself 1 point for each day in your reply!

  • Did you unplug with a family member / friends intentionally this week and thus CONNECT to them meaningfully? If yes, give yourself a point!

  • Have you realized this is a problem in your life, because that is the FIRST step! If so - 2 points for you!

  • Are you aware of this problem around you and your friends and family and have you addressed it with others? If so, you get a point also! ( Note I have always used the word "addressed" in this series, some people confuse this word with telling others what to do.... this is not the same thing. Dialogue with others is the goal. Awareness.)

  • Did you put your devices in another room at dinner time and at bedtime this week intentionally? That's a point each time, champ! List it! Think on it!!

Please tally up your points, list it in a reply and please open up about how you feel about these issues in your life and the world today!!

Why??

Because this is a Community Resource and I care and we are all in this together. None of us are getting out alive.

That is the end of today's post in this series. I wanted to cover all the basics in the Series constants, as usual, for all the new people reading this post for the first time,

If you are still reading -- thank you very much and have a nice day. I hope something here helps you.


Thanks for reading, have a nice day.








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Recommend reading RAW Food and the Psych Ward. Think it will talk to you :)

Sadly im using televion and smartphone, tablet and the computer to much time each day. When i quit my computer its for the tablet, when i quit the tablet its for the smartphone, infinite loop... But i will think about bad consequences of that and maybe will try to change.

it is important, that is why I started and kept this series going this long!

At least you recognize some of your issues, try and use the tips in my series to help you.

Hey i am Umar Usman
and i am new on Steemit i really like your posts
and i am also following you
can you please follow me back
and upvote my last post

here is the link
https://steemit.com/nature/@omrusman/last-night-s-sunset-over-lake-texoma

Thanks
waiting for your response

You really need to make more effort with replies to peoples' posts. Not just cut and paste "follow me" stuff like this, like so many people are doing.

Just my 2 ¢ but it is good advice to new people.

Hmm Sorry and yes you are saying right
i will try my best in future and try to work hard

Unfortunately, this is the era we have found ourselves in. A bit tough to adhere to your recommendations especially with the introduction of steemit 😁
I am getting so addicted to steemit lately

Remain balanced as best you can in all things.

👍
I am trying my best!
Many thanks 🙏 for your candid advice.

I just can't leave my laptop, even when I sleep, my laptop is always by myside, I feel like I'm Dating My Laptop HAHA :D

If you got 3/4 of the way thru this then you see what I said about being able to admit the problem first and that was worth bonus points LOL!

LOL.

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Managed to squeeze in a whole $0.04 for you @berrydutton! I enjoyed this post and I definitely need to start to have longer breaks away from the internet. My self and Lacey have a no phone rule while we are eating lunch/supper.

spelling!!!! - @barrydutton

but thanks LOL

easy to tell whos who with these errors ;)

LOL!

I would only guess.

But on here like IRL spelling/typos count and it can cost someone since it is crypto.

#SteemStock Update is out on my page for the Feb/March event in Ft. Worth TX

I better get use to proof reading!

This is important info and I am and will continue to try and implement it. Steem does make it difficult though doesn't it?

It does, I know, there is a lot on the line and a lot going on.

  • i am just working on my first official #SteemStock update to help that event.

I am not sure how I am going to figure everything else out but did you see I won a trip to SteemFest last week???

(:

It's a wake up call for so many of us! Thanks for sharing, @barrydutton

Upvoted

Thanks a lot my man.

You're very welcome! :)

Thank you for the friendly reminder @barrydutton. This is something I have always struggled to do, and I need pay more attention to it. Don’t want to fry my brains with 1.21 gigawatts now do I!

That is very bad.

Very very bad LOL

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