A Word To... A bad Father
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Is father the man we all adore?
I don't think so. So please, don't let us all pretend as if the father is so important, the always hardworking man who provides for every need of his wife and children and gives his very best.
Indeed he is just a man, human but so are moms. Let's face it there are too many abandoned, abused and molested children. Children who have to call such a person dad. Imagine saying 'father' to someone who means nothing to you, who hates, molests or abuses you. How does it feel if the monster underneath the bed is Dad?
Father can be a person who never played a role or harmed a child and that child will suffer from it till the end of his/her life.
Shouldn't the word father be reserved for a man who really l cares? Even without the 'desired' bloodline or something in common, it is possible to create a bond.
Let us not pretend the average family contains a father, mother plus children. Today's, 2024 average family is more likely a single parent carrying all responsibilities on their shoulders.
Super Dad?
How to be a bad father?
If people ask me I refer to you
The charming person you pretend to be
It's a performance you give
You are fake, only take
Never gave or cared
You are the man of the empty promises.
Anyone who falls for your tricks
Is stupid enough to trust
Willing to give to and kiss you
Discovers all too soon
You are the opposite of Prince Charming
A loser who has nothing to offer
All you are is a scam, a coldhearted frog
So please, stop pretending.
Father's day
Another wishlist to fulfil?
Not for me.
That last time you stopped by
It's over 30 years ago
Give me a break dad
You don't deserve to be called this way
Were you ever around
Or only enjoying the bright side of life
Hunting, spending, instead of working,
Chasing after
Hiding behind lame excuses
And underneath women's skirts?
I could wish you a great Father's Day
If you only wouldn't have said:
Children are a big mistake
But it doesn't matter since you are dead.
RIP from one out of six
(or are there more?)
@yaladeeds @blessedlife @gertu
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1-6-2024
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You know me, dadless never had one. Didn't we justbhad this contest or was it only me?
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I can that you take your Dad as your mentor, I wish you more grace and good luck in your contest
What do you mean? Did you read what I wrote?🤯
My father is one of the last persons on earth I would take for a mentor. I know mob bosses who make a better dad 🤔
I love the fact you spilled your truth regarding this contest, I feel you! May God continue to heal you throughout your journey here on earth ❤️
Hola, estimada. Ante todo, mil disculpas por la tardanza en atender tu mención, se me acumularon notificaciones nivel ¡la locura!. Me gusta tomarme el tiempo de leer con calma y te mereces eso.
La verdad es que no todos los padres cumplen con su rol, pero eso en mi opinión no significa que a ese papel deba restársele importancia, todo lo contrario. De hecho pienso que en el fondo todos los reproches que les hacemos a quienes consideramos han fallado en esa misión demuestran la importancia que le damos, por eso duele tanto cuando fallan.
El hombre es producto de una sociedad y la crianza que se les dio, algunos trascienden eso y se rebelan contra todo el machismo que les fue inculcado, otros no tienen ese nivel de conciencia, pero no deberíamos meterlos a todos en un saco.
No sé si el que cumple con su familia esté fingiendo, no veo por qué lo haría, pero considero que todos los seres humanos tienen contradicciones.
Quien se da el permiso y la oportunidad de sanar sus heridas tras haber tenido un padre que no le cumplió, se está dando amor a sí mismo. No tenemos que cargar con las heridas eternamente, podemos sanarlas, así lo creo yo, viéndolo desde afuera, claro.
Un gran abrazo
Gracias por leer y compartir sus opiniones. Para mí, esta es una emisora que pasó de moda hace mucho tiempo y la única razón por la que me uní (avisé al presentador) es porque el presentador del concurso me lo pidió. No quería hacer que mi padre pareciera mejor de lo que era. ¿Por qué iba a hacerlo? Tampoco soy de los que dicen: no hables mal de los que murieron.
¿Quizás con lo que escribí se haga un hueco a todos aquellos que se ven obligados a callarse la boca porque decir que tus padres son una mierda no se hace? De alguna manera espero que así sea.
No hay curación si los padres, la familia y la sociedad siguen fingiendo que todos los padres son estupendos y está mal discutir el hecho de que muchos no comparten esta opinión.
¿De verdad tenemos que hacer que todas esas personas se sientan más desgraciadas con nuestra actitud?
Si esta es la idea de este concurso, es mejor decir que las experiencias personales que no son geniales no se pueden compartir.
Podría eliminar esta entrada. Hice lo mismo con una anterior sobre los "padres". ¿Lo hago?
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No, es tu experiencia, tu opinión y tus sentimientos, no es necesario que la elimines.
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This is s painful read, i can feel the pain from here. It is painful when the one who is suppose to protect becomes the monter you need protection from. Sorry dearie🙏🙏🙏.
I equally believe a mom or a dad mustn't be the one who participated in birthing you, when i say my mom if the story says the person is alive, just know it is my step-mom, she is my mother and nothing can change that, my birth mom is late, i was angry her cos i was too young to understand then ut became too late. I am forever grateful to God for helping me get a mom in my step mom.
I really do hope someone was able to fill in as your dad when you needed one, i wish there is someone to represent all the people and attention you need, someone to be all even if he is not all.
No one filled in with me but I don't think it bothered me. What bothered more was my mother getting more crazy every day and more violent.
It's good to hear you had a great mom.
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Their mistakes made you a greater person and an amazing mom, it is sad when good people suffer just to receive simple good that they can give out so easily to others, but to get it back feels like a far luxury. You turned out alright and in a little more time, you will be living a sweet life like a yummy poem, lingering in melodic fulfillment.