Steemit Engagement Challenge S18 W4 // Spreading joy

in life people face so many challenges out of this challenges, one can lead to sorrow and one can lead to joy, but in my own case I know the part I have chosen and it has really helped me going, this part has strengthen me and that part is joy. Before I proceed I will love to invite @dove1, @karianaporras and @goodybest to join me in the contest

One thing that makes me happy today is seeing my two teenagers well behaved, my second son finishes his WAEC on Friday and I brought him home for holidays and also prepare him for his upcoming NECO examination that is coming up towards ending of this month. Then today something happened in my house, he uses his elder brother power bank to charge his phone and the battery of the power bank is not strong enough for Android phone but is onay for iPhone, so my second son uses the power bank and charge his phone and the battery went off.

When my first son came back he noticed the power bank was off and he query my second son and even slap him but my second was just apologizing to the brother and I was happy that my second son recognized the fact that he need to respect his elders.

That's alone makes me happy and I said to myself that I have try to raise them in a respectful manner.

If I want to view it in the way and experience of my life I will say there is more joy in life than pain. Why I say so it that we are living in the world that we all experience hardships and challenges, but in this hardship and the challenges we face it is the moments of joy and love that truly make our life worth living. The joy in us makes life beautiful and this has really worked for me.

When the challenge of life face me, I said to myself I need to keep moving and I put on my smiling face and since then joy had been the greatest source of my living, some of us can recap what I am saying. My life is a true definition of joy.

When it comes to talking about my joy and happiness, I am one person that don't dwell in the past, I focus on the presence and it keeps me going. For me to Lost 3 most amazing people in my life is enough that I would have dwell in sorrows but since I am one person that don't discuss my problems, my joy is what matters to me, so if I want to discuss in these two aspects of my life I talk about my joy.

First I lost my mum, and the heat was not that much, when I lost my Dad I feel the whole world was on my me because we were too close, but when I then lost my husband that was when I saw my whole world collapsing and along the line I told myself, what happened to my kids that I brought to the world, what if something bad happened to me, who will be able to take care of my kids the way I do? After all thought, I told my self that the only way out of these terrible situations is to put on a happiness face and move on with life. Immediately I was done thinking and moved on, I see my future blessing coming one after the other.

Will I say this is my ministry, joy giver, yes I will consider myself to be that person that tries to spread positive energy to people around me.

Recently I was just on my own and I decided to put a small on some people faces through online. I was able to give about three people money on Facebook and they were so happy

Screenshot from my phone, the joy I shared to people on my social media

This is not my first time of doing it, I have been doing it for a very long time, at times I use my last money and give to people. At least no matter how small it is, I am able to put smiles on people faces

Mesola 🥰