#s4n-sahmie8Contest: Counting my Eggs

in Steem4Nigeria2 months ago (edited)

Count eggs before they hatch:
A lesson in life and aspiration


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The Fascination of a Proverb

Counting your chickens before they hatch is a concept that has always fascinated me, and throughout my life, I've come to interpret it in various ways. Reflecting on my journey, I now understand that this proverb holds profound wisdom, especially when applied both in everyday life and on platforms like Steemit.

Expectations and Reality in the Professional Path

After completing my studies, I embarked on the working world with the enthusiasm and determination typical of a young person my age. I firmly believed that success would welcome me before forty. However, the reality proved different from my expectations. Despite numerous opportunities that presented themselves, circumstances beyond my control prevented me from fully seizing them. These experiences taught me that, despite our best efforts, it is not always possible to predict or control how events will unfold.

Reflections and Personal Growth

Life is a mosaic of happy moments and challenges; our actions are often the result of a balance between what the heart desires and what the mind believes to be the right choice. I admit I haven't always made the right choices, but each decision has contributed to shaping the person I am today. This realization led me to count the "eggs," or my expectations of success, later in life, around my fifties. Only then did I begin to address unresolved issues, allowing me to find peace with myself.

Applying Lessons on Steemit

On Steemit, I try to apply these lessons. I set realistic goals and strive to manage my expectations, always reminding myself that the value of the journey lies as much in the path as in the destination. I commit to contributing with authenticity and passion, hoping to inspire other community members.

Balancing Ambition and Reality

Balancing ambition and reality is not simple, but I have found that being open to change and flexible in the face of challenges helps me manage my expectations. This approach allows me to pursue my goals with determination, without losing sight of the importance of enjoying the present moment.

The Importance of Balancing Hope and Pragmatism

Counting eggs before they hatch has taught me the importance of balancing hope and pragmatism, both in life and on Steemit. I invite friends and colleagues to reflect on this concept and to embrace every experience with an open heart and a mind ready to learn.

As in 'Love Yourz' by J. Cole, this personal narrative reflects on finding gratitude in life's simple joys and accepting one's journey, reminding us that true success lies in appreciating what we have, rather than longing for what's missing.

Happy reading and listening. @ibesso

I invite my friends @tripple-e @yaladeeds @amoakdaniel to participate

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 2 months ago 

Whatever choices we make or situations we face, either come to shape us or serve as a lesson to us. I wish you success

 2 months ago 

thank you @tripple-e you always capture the heart of my posts it's nice to share my works with you. good luck with your beautiful content

 2 months ago 

You're welcome and thank you too for your well wishes

 2 months ago 

I wonder... What's the point in counting eggs, especially before they hatch?
A hatched egg will not necessarily grow up in a healthy chick or rooster ready to be grilled.

So I ask you what's the point of counting, calculating success for a future that might never come?

What does success mean anyway if we are easily been replaced?

Mistakes?
I didn't make any only took deciscions based on the time and moment I lived in.

There's nothing to regret exept for wasting my time by working hard.

🍀❤️

 2 months ago 

I appreciate how both texts celebrate the importance of living in the present and in accepting the uncertainty of the future. This awareness teaches us to find value in the journey of life, more than in its outcomes, thus enriching our personal path. Thank you.👋

 2 months ago 

It's all about the journey, life experiences that makes us stronger, wiser and love and understand the world we live in more.

To me creativity is the key and if issues arise I know I can handle them, survive because I did so many times before.

From what you write I understand you came from afar and managed a lot. Time to give yourself a pat on the shoulder and be satisfied. Time to relax and have a good laugh, let go of the too much thinking.

🍀❤️

 2 months ago 

thanks Kitti, I will have written this comment at least 10 times, but I can't find the words, yes I have an introverted character and honestly I would like to be less reflective but it's not the same as saying it, thanks I will follow your advice a pat on the back yes I will give it to myself and a I have a bit of irony to present

 2 months ago 

I am an introvert too, so are my children. Indeed knowing is not the same as practising but awareness is the first step. There's no need to be an extrovert.

 2 months ago 

this is already the second characteristic that unites us, not bad considering that we know nothing about ourselves, it is interesting to get to know each other competition after competition. I wish you and your children a happy Sunday

 2 months ago (edited)

I don't really like to join these competitions. Not that the average of what I write is read/rewarded.. but at least I feel more happy after a story of 10 minutes writing than those Q&A articles meant for a database.

A great Sunday to you, we all try to lay low and keep warm.

When will the earth warm up?

🍀❤️

 2 months ago 

I'm glad you write for yourself, what a nice thought but I think the earth will never be warm enough even if your thought warms it a lot, have a good evening

 2 months ago 

Hi kitty, it will be the tenth time I've rewritten this comment, but I can't express what I think. This time I'll pass, good night and thanks for support my things

 2 months ago 

I just read one of your comments. Thanks for reading. I read you too. You write good posts.

 2 months ago 

When you are lucky enough to have friends of a certain level it is easier to give your best. Thanks Kitty

 2 months ago 

Very true.. we should search, invite those with interest in 🤔

Just discovered someone.

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 2 months ago 

Thank you for sharing your insightful entry for the "Counting my Eggs" contest. Your reflection on the proverb "counting your chickens before they hatch" and its application in both professional and personal life is thought-provoking. It's commendable how you've embraced the lessons learned from life's challenges and applied them to your journey on Steemit. Your emphasis on setting realistic goals, managing expectations, and balancing ambition with flexibility resonates with many users navigating their paths on Steemit and beyond. Best of luck to you, and I hope your entry inspires others to reflect on their own journeys.

 2 months ago 

thank you @ekemini01 I'm glad you appreciate my thoughts I wish you the best in life, good luck in your goals

 2 months ago 

Thank you for your kind words! It's encouraging to receive your comment. By intertwining personal experiences with the wisdom of ancient proverbs, we can find common ground to navigate life's uncertainties. I hope our shared reflections will inspire and guide others in their quests for balance and fulfillment. I wish you a good evening.

 2 months ago 

I understand where you're coming from, my friend. After finishing your studies, you entered the working world with so much excitement and determination. But sometimes, reality doesn't align with our expectations. It's a tough lesson to learn, but it's important to realize that we can't always predict or control how things will unfold. Keep pushing forward and stay resilient, my friend! Success will come soon.

 2 months ago 

how beautiful your words @triple-a encourage me to move forward with enthusiasm thank you, good luck

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Life is so unpredictable,we had plans and expectations but the reality we got was totally unexpected. I wish you success on the contest my friend.

 2 months ago 

thank you @yaladeeds your words are beautiful and strengthen my thoughts, I wish you a good day and best wishes for your work

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