Why do couples get divorced? A brief study of the causes of divorce.
Children do not like seeing their parents fighting, nor do they get divorced, but sometimes there is no choice.
The study examined about 400 cases of divorces
and examined the reasons for divorce.
What causes a divorce?
Maybe a betrayal or an extramarital affair?
the survey shows that this is not the case.
Only 11% -12% of the divorces did so for this reason.
A one-time lapse, in most cases, does not necessarily constitute a sufficient cause for the dissolution of the family unit.
Many of the betrayed spouses are prepared to forgive and avoid the heavy price of dismantling the family unit, which involves dealing with the financial and other implications.
sometimes the married couple realizes that they need to "work" on the relationship, which betrayal has been only a symptom.
Almost every third couple divorces due to financial difficulties.
There are serious allegations about concealment, the disappearance of funds, and even the emptying of the bill behind the back in bad faith, Such things happen because of the lack of transparency on the part of the party managing the money.
In addition, Couples who do not manage to "finish the month" and maintain the family properly, slowly create ongoing conflict and mutual accusations.
Sometimes, the feeling that the partner who does not good enough or there is someone else out there that can be better.
People do not settle for what they have
in recent years there has been a greater awareness of women towards the economic violence of men. The most prominent feature of economic violence is the husband's total control over the management of the family unit's finances and being the only person making decisions related to the family's assets that pertain to the couple's shared rights and obligations.
In many cases, it turns out that many women who are "economically battered" are educated women and even those holding senior positions, but in their homes, they are submissive and left behind maybe because of the traditional system that the man is the breadwinner and the woman is at home with the children and cooks in the kitchen.
Not many women break up a family unit because of violence, the opposite is true. The sad reality shows that a large proportion of the battered women, who even fled the house and moved to shelters for battered women, return to their spouses. In the end, and only a few of them, break down and decide to break up, The data on domestic violence in developing countries are still worrisome.
This is a situation in which one of the spouses 'reveals himself' or feels that he has exhausted his relationship after several years of marriage. Such crises usually come in "round ages," like 40.50, who feel they do not exhaust life, that life is not what they expected. This is usually the result of significant life tasks that have ended, the exhaustion of a career and / or economic accumulation.
To conclude the survey, most people who get divorced are people who think there is something better outside than they know at home, something that was once out of the question today is common
What do you think?